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wat do i do???
ok my friend is really mad at me because we joke around and she took a joke personly so her mom called my mom and her mom told my mom wat i said.now im really in a bad situation /wat shud i do???should i joke around anymore???
sincerly,
xxmystary-girlxx
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Well if you were to joke around, make sure the people around you and the person or thing is not gonna be offended by it and knos that its a joke. Simple things like taht could cause serious problems
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You should call her and tell her your really sorry and didnt mean for her to take it like that. Tell her you wont make any more jokes like that. If her mom answers and is really mean or something, tell her your calling to appologize. Try not to joke around like that any more or just think before you say anything to her. Its happened to everyone! I hope everything works out! good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911
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ok.. look at what joking got you into.. think, before you speak. it's very simple. don't joke about anything that would offend someone because you don't know how sensitive they are.
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Although you will always have your jokes to tell and make-up, you might want to think before you speak. Think about what others might think of it or how they might take it. Don't change yourself though, just be more considerate. As for your situation right now, I'd definitely apologize and explain that you were only joking.
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hey..tell your friend you are really sorry. Dont stop being who you are..but be careful about your jokes. Good Luck Hope i helped XoXo Michelle
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Okay the only reason why i can help you is cause i had this same thing happen to me!! I wouldnt stop acting yourself just because of that but i would start to think about what im gonna say and make sure that she wont take it the wrong way! or maybe just stop jokin with her because she could really be sensitive!
*CaItLYn*
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just tell your friend your really sry and you didnt mean anything by it and giv her a little card or something. wen you joke around just dont say anything mean about your friends (even tho its a joke).
hope i helped :)
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That sounds like one of my old friends. No one likes her anymore.
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Its fine to joke around with friends..butt when they take it ersonally..thats when its time to stop. Like my friends joke with me and i joke with them..but if any of them took it personally..thats when i would stop. So i would apologize to your friend and make up..and not joke with her.
-melissa-
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She should know it was only a joke. Next time think about what you are saying to her so she doesnt take it seriously. You shouldnt stop joking around with people because a l0t of ppl dont take it seriously. x0
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Maybe think bout what your joking about before you say anything..and think how you would feel if somebody joked bout it with you..much luv dez
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Maybe you can still joke around, just nothing like what you said before. Try calling her and apologizing. Hopefully everything works out between the two of you!
♥ Always,
Maria
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Tell her to grow up and stop running to her mom for everything...slap her around and hold her at gun point...no..dont do that...just yell at her..tell her youre annoyed that shes so immature she ran to her mom cuz she couldnt take a joke.
Have fun.
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i hate it when some of my friends dont get my sense of humor... because they 2 sometimes take it personally. just dont joke around with her... but you should still joke around with people who have a sense of humor to! hope i helped! please rate!
x0x0 abbey x0x0
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just because one of your friends took it seriously doesnt mean you dont have to be funny.
just apoligize,and usually the next day or the day after that everything will be cool
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Hey hun,
Yea, you should joke around to a point. Your friend seems like the sensitive type, like me :) but like before you joke around or say something, think to your self "Is this going to hurt _______'s feelings?" then put yourself in their shoes if you were to say it. You can still joke around just don't do it too much, because your friendship just might be all about joking around and you want to have a friendship that is also based off being serious sometimes, like bonding seriously. And remember EVERYONE makes mistakes and says hurtful things to one another. Say you are sorry to your friend, show her you care and you're sorry that you hurt her, and tell her that you will try and be a better friend when it comes to joking around :)
Hope I helped and Good Luck :)
Pura Morena
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you can joke around all you want, you just gotta make sure it wont be offensive to anyone around you in anyway. unless you always warn them by sayin like "no offence" or sumthin like that. but i think al u need to do is say srry, you didn't no that it would have offended her and that you're really srry.
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Maybe you should say sorry and don't joke around to much I mean you still can as long as its not like you did before that made your friend mad.
x0x bree!
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