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Hey! If yall have any questions yall wanna ask me then yall can!! I will try to reply as fast as I can!! Friends: Dont ask me stupid questions like about me ask me questions that yall want advice on!! LOL love yalll!!
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wut r the steps i need to take to get a babysitting job? (i have already taken a class and gotten a liscense so where do i go from here...?)
maybe you should ask your parents or neighbors if they know anyone that needs a babysitter and tell them to tell their friends about ya!!
*CaItLyN*
ook, im in some confused shit right now.. i mean i seriously dont know what to do!! heres the thing.. ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months straight now and its really serious. everyone says were the perfect couple. i met him near the end of my freshman year and we dated through the summer and into our sophmore year. hes such a great guy, i love his parents his two doggies and his adorable little sister! and i think im in love.. ya know! i mean its the perfect situation, i love him and his family and he loves me and my family... what could go wrong right? well about a week, maybe two weeks ago, i saw something very strange about him... im just going to come out and say it... i think hes gay. i cant beleive i didnt see the signs before! hes over at his friend Rob's house every day and one time im not sure but i think i caught them. i went over to Robs house one day around 730 about a week ago and i see my boyfriend walking out and i go up to Robs door pretending i didnt c my boyfriend leave, Robs half naked and his hairs messed up and so was my boyfriends. and im sure as hell they werent wrestling!! what do i do? ive been tryin to think of ways to ask my boyfrind about the situation and his sexuality but i dont know how to put it! help me please!
**dis chick is confused**
wow thats a hard one! ok so when yall are together or something then just slowly bring up the conversation about yalls relationship...ask him if he truely cares about you....and listen to what he has to say...then tell one of you BEST friends that you know you can trust about what you saw and how you think he might be gay and get her to casually bring up the conversation with him and she can get it out of him OR you can get one of your friends to talk to one of his friends about it! if he is gay OR even just By you dont want to be with him...it would be weird if yall were at the mall or soemthing and he checks out a guy! so try to get one of your friends to talk to him or one of his friends! if ya need anything else just ask me! You can always IM me too...ImAgInUsToGeThEr
*CaItLyN*
OMG CAITLYN! i have no idea on what to do...when it comes to guys my friends say i flirt with everyone..i dont think so..i think im juss talkin to them but my friends think otherwise and ill mess around with guys b/c thats juss the way i am..well when it comes down to a guy that i really like then i WONT throw myself at him b/c i want to make sure that he really likes me..so now i dont always go up to him and talk to him liek i did..i want him to come up to me...well he doesnt talk to me now since i dont talk to him..well one of my guy friends that is friends with both me and the guy i like gave me advice that i should talk to him so i did yesterday and after school we kissed..juss a peck though..but the thing is i want him to be the man and come up to talk to me b/c girls arent supposed to wait on boys..its the other way around ( we all know that ;) ) what do i do because i want to make sure hes not using me too because i see him sometimes flirting with other girls and i kinda get jealous but i do the same..i flirt with guys and think he shouldnt get mad at me b/c were not together
HELP ME PLZ U HOTT SEXY MAMI CAITLYN
Well you should prolly ask him why he doesnt come up to you and talk to him! Obviously he likes you since yall kissed which is good! The way to see if he is using you or not is to talk to one of his friends and get them to talk to him and see what he says then get them to tell you what he says! If he doesnt come up to you though then still go up to him! Guys dont always make the first move because they are scared. Now if yall arent together then you cant tell him not to flirt with girls but if yall do get together tell him how you feel and if he truely cares about you then he will stop!
Thanks I know IM HOT!!!
*CaItLyN*
My best friend in the entire world is going out with a guy that I liked..At one point in time I liked him and he liked me..but I never went out with him because my best friend liked him.. I dont know whether or not I should tell her this because, well they look really cute together, but the thing is, is that I think I still like him..
Clueless here..I dont know what to do..
well i prolly wouldnt tell her until you know for a fact that you like him! maybe you will see someone else you like! but give it a week and if you still like him then tell your friend and just say i felt bad not tellin you but make sure you tell her that you dont want to break them up you just thought she should know
*CaItLyN*
When my b/f puts his arm around my shoulder is it beeter to put my arm around his shoulder or waist
WAIST!!!!!
*CaItLYn*
I am absolutely positively crazy in love with this guy at my school. We flirt like crazy, but i am so not good at making the first move, and i want to be his girlfriend because i think about him all the time and we are perfect for each other. Is there any mild way of hinting you want to go out with someone without actually asking them? Please help!
Signed- Lovesick puppy
Ya there is ways to tell them you like them without actually tellin them. You could always flirt with them all the time and always dress cute. Also this is kinda like the one that gives it away is ask the guy who he likes and if he says no but asks who you like then just be like why should i tell you and just like flirt like that!! hope i helped IM me if ya need me!
*CaItLyN*
The most popular girl in school (i was O.K friends with her) moved to Arizona (i'm in Virginia) and I am happY! SOOO HAPPY! Cause i like being the center of attention. All my bestfriends are sad though, because they liked her! I didn't really though! Is it wrong to be glad???? Cause I feel really bad.
Its not wrong to be happy but make sure you are there for your friends if they need someone to talk to!
*CaItLyN*
ok my friend is really mad at me because we joke around and she took a joke personly so her mom called my mom and her mom told my mom wat i said.now im really in a bad situation /wat shud i do???should i joke around anymore???
sincerly,
xxmystary-girlxx
Okay the only reason why i can help you is cause i had this same thing happen to me!! I wouldnt stop acting yourself just because of that but i would start to think about what im gonna say and make sure that she wont take it the wrong way! or maybe just stop jokin with her because she could really be sensitive!
*CaItLYn*
Hey it's me yet again with yet another problem.
There's this kid who I have strong feelings for, and we were into each other for the longest time. He just broke up with his girlfriend and he's miserable because he cared about her... gurr it makes me so jealous!
He's ignored me for the past month... just all of a sudden stopped liking me. I care about him SOOO much. Should I be mad for his ingoring me like that and going out with someone else... and just avoid him? Or try, now that he's single... to get his attention again????
Maybe what you should do is instead of ignore him or try to get his attention is just start talkin to him more and more and be there for him rite now and let him talk to you then when he is better about his girlfriend dumping him then talk to him about the way you feel for him!
*CaItLYn*
15/f
ok.... there's this guy at school that i made friends with over the last six weeks or so and i was really looking forward to his friendship cz he's a great guy.... but then something HORRIBLE happened... he took some tranquilizers before school about a week ago and was COMPLETELY high...so i helped him get through 2nd period and then walked him up to 3rd (we have those classes together). well, he got caught that day and now his parents are making him transfer to another school and i was really upset cz i thought that would be the end of it....but then i got a note from him through his cousin saying thankyou for helping him and stuff and asking for info on contacting me...that was when he was at his aunt's cz his parents kicked him out of the house so he could get on the internet and call people for short periods of time...so i wrote him back and now he's back at his own house and that's good but not really cz he can't get online or call anyone or anything there. so now i'm scared that he might do something to himself or something cz he's not the kind to just sit and be quiet...he HAS to talk...and he's tried to hurt himself before.... i've emailed him and all, but ya...i cant really get in touch with him... do y'all know anything that could help me get my mind off of all this for the time being so i can hold on to my sanity? Sry it's so long... i'll rate high...and plz don't write anything if all your gunna do is put me down or something...cz that's not helpfull.
thanx
Okay what i think you should do is maybe send an email or call his parents and tell them how your feeling! If you really truely think he might hurt himself you need to make sure he gets help! dont sit there and do nothing! Make sure you can help him by letting somone know so that they can help him! IM me if ya need to talk!
*CaItLYn*
Okay my friend likes this guy, but they broke up and he doesnt lik eher at all..so she had a new boyfriend...and i started to like her ex so i told her so she wouldnt be mad at me..but she got mad and we are in a fight now...and then she broke up with her new boyfriend cause i like her ex.. and ithink shes gonna try and get her ex back so i dont have a chance but im not sure...i dont know what to do cause i was only trying to be a good friend by telling her that so she wouldnt have to find out if i like dated him
Okay you totally did the rite thing by tellin your friend that you liked her ex! she needed to know..and if she got mad at you for that then she isnt a true friend just because no one can tell you who to like and who not to like! and if she broke up with her boyfriend just to go back out with her ex just to get you mad then that is so rude and she isnt a true friend!
*CaItLyN*
HEY theres this girl that i think is fine and i want to know wat to say to her when i don't even know if she likes me?? should i like also take her somewhere or do something??? What do u think i might have to say to get this girl to say YES!!!!!!! to me????
Write back and good job making the Farmerettes
If you dont know if she likes you then talk to her friends they prolly know or get one of your friends to ask her if she likes you or not....well if you dont know if she likes you or not then invite her somewhere with you and some of your friends and then her and some of her friends like to the movies or something...then you should prolly just talk to her and get to know her a little more and once you feel comfortable then ask her if she likes you..whats the worse thing that can happen she will say no but who cares you might be sad for a little bit but you arent goin to be for long and who knows she might like you back! Dont worry about what she is goin to say for ever because if you wait long enough she might move on and end up not likein you anymore so make sure you make it fast!
*CaItLyN*
hey ight its me tbozz i forgot wat i said but umm i have a ? how did u get soooo pretty and soo sweet?????????????
aww...thats so nice!! thanks for sayin that but i dont know if thats completely true cause im prolly not pretty! lol well thanks for that little comment of yours lol
*CaItLyN*
I cant help it! i dont know what to do. I make tons of promises but i can NEVER keep them. I will sware to a person that i wont tell anyone something just so they will tell me, but then i got and tell people what i heard? what should i do? i want people to tell me stuff but i dont want to keep it a secret...
ALSO...i constantly lie...i lie a LOT. about everything almost...idk what to do
If you want people to trust you then you cant tell people! You know what could help you is if someone asks you to keep a secret say i promise i will try too...so when you accidently tell someone it then its not like you lied! But the thing is if people tell you something and they ask you to keep a secret...they WANT you to keep it a secret! I dont know what to tell ya if I were you I would try my hardest not to say anything! Or something else is if someone tells you something and you promise not to tell anyone then just get a notebook that no one else looks at and just write it in there so that you dont have to worry about keepin it in you! Now the lieing thing I cant help ya with because its all up to you..People dont like it when other people lie but some times you have to lie to protect yourself but the thing is if someone asks you something but you dont want to tell them the true answer say something like i dont wanna talk about it or i cant tell ya because then you arent lieing but you also arent tellin them! I hope I helped!
*CaItLyN*
I have this really bad problem...every time i see someone who is ugly, i just blurt it out. I know it must hurt peoples feelings, but i really dont care. I just cant stand ugly or fat people, and i say it. My friends always tell me that its terrible but i dont know what i should do. I just hate fat and ugly people so much they shouldn't be able to go out in public at all!
thanks.
OMG!! YOU HAVE A MAJOR PROBLEM! Im not trying to be rude! But listen you cant go around tellin people they are ugly and fat! I know a lot of people that arent ugly but they think they are and when they hear someone say that they get so sad! People cant help the way they look! What if someone told you that you were fat and ugly! You would get so dissappointed and then you would be so worried about the way you look! If you see someone ugly or fat then just in your head be like OMG THEY ARE SO UGLY! BUT NO MATTER WHAT do not say it out loud cause people could really feel horrible if they heard that!! Some people could PHYSICALLY HURT themselves!! so just try to keep it in your head dont say it out loud!
*CaItLyN*
so me and this guy have been dating for nearly 7 months all together but we broke up 2 days ago which is totally fine with me and him because were really good friends ya know......but ever since this new guy came to our school ive been drawn to him because he has an adorable smile and some fine muscles and also he is really funny! lol!...and im really starting to like him but tha bad thing is him and my ex are really good friends. i dont know if its too soon to move on from my last boyfriend or would that be totally wrong and make me a horrible person?? what do you think???? write back!
So yall were dating for 7 mounths...and now you like his friend! I think you should atleast wait for a little bit because your ex-boyfriend is probably still getting over you! Dont get me wrong...still flirt and do your useual stuff with the guy you like now so he knows that you like him but wait a while and make sure your ex-boyfriend is okay....you dont want to get in the middle of the friendship..you know how you would feel if someone did that to you!! I hope I helped! IM me if ya need to talk!
*CaItLyN*
Dont hate the media, become the media If you love god,burn the church
WHAT??? Hun thats not a question!! I CANT GIVE U ADVICE ON THAT!!! Your so stupid lol!! i still love ya though....is this cassie?
*CaItLyN*
Ok..you've had some pretty intense questions...and you gave great advice...but back to the whole kissing thing... It's kinda embarrassing that I haven't kissed a guy before...but to tell ya the truth I never had a boyfriend to kiss...and I would feel ackward telling my first boyfriend that I never had a guy before or never kissed...but how do you think I could tell him..you know in the future...if I ever have one?
Dont be ashamed that you havent kissed a guy before!! Some people dont have their first kiss until they are 17 for example my sister has strong morals and she thought she should wait and kiss a guy when she knew it was supposed to happen!! She kissed her boyfriend when she was 17 years old and that was her first. Who cares if you havent kissed a guy before, if your boyfriend thinks your weird becuase of that then he doesnt really like you!! If you tell him and he says its okay then he probably really likes you and doesnt want to use you! I would just go ahead and tell him if he really like you then he will not care if you havent kissed a guy before!! And dont waste your first kiss on some random guy...make it special!
*CaItLyN*
Okay i didnt try out for farmerettes because it didnt really intreast me, but i really want to try out for cheerleader! But im scared because i dont think im good enough! like i honestly dont think im skinny enough, or pretty enough. Should i still tryout even tho i dont think ill make it??
Go ahead! Tryout for cheerleader!! Just try your hardest....if you dont make it then who cares...if you do make it then you will be glad that you tryed out!! If you dont make it then dont put yourself down!! Be happy that at least you tried! GO for it and just see what happens!!
*CaItlYn*
ok..so im 14 and im a girl..i have never been kissed..i know..gay right? but anyways...i have been waiting for a long time for this one guy and now i finally have him..i want him to be my first kiss..i really really do..but idk when or where to do it..we have been going out for a couple weeks now..is it too soon to kiss or not? and also..idk how to kiss..you know..and all that jazz..can you please give me some advice and maybe some pointers on kissing?!
I answered your other one already so read that one cause im pretty sure its the same question lol!!
*CaItlYn*