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IM TORMENTED
Hey it's me yet again with yet another problem.
There's this kid who I have strong feelings for, and we were into each other for the longest time. He just broke up with his girlfriend and he's miserable because he cared about her... gurr it makes me so jealous!
He's ignored me for the past month... just all of a sudden stopped liking me. I care about him SOOO much. Should I be mad for his ingoring me like that and going out with someone else... and just avoid him? Or try, now that he's single... to get his attention again????
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haha your tormented
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I think you should give him some time to get over the old girlfriend before you jump in there.Rebound relationships rarely work out in the long run.
I doubt that he truly dislikes you all of a sudden. He just may not want much to do with girls at the moment.Be nice to him when you do get the chance to talk but don't come on to strong.
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Be mad at him, and that he was going out w/ someone else. Don't let him see your anger,but make sure it's there. You could make a move, but ask him WHY he dumped her. Look interested and MAKE EYE CONTACT
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well if i were you i would try to get his attention again, i mean now that hes single and all you guys might even end up together. lol
=) martyna
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Maybe what you should do is instead of ignore him or try to get his attention is just start talkin to him more and more and be there for him rite now and let him talk to you then when he is better about his girlfriend dumping him then talk to him about the way you feel for him!
*CaItLYn*
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I'd say leave the guy alone for a while, maybe call him every once in a while and see how hes doing, but don't push it with him, just be his friend, thats probably all he needs right now, someone to just tell him its ok. And don't be mad at him, if you're mad, show that anger to yourself, because showing it to him will probably make him feel worse. After his whole break up proccess, which will be a few solid months, you can start getting him into you and just hsng out. Try not being just like his old girlfriend, being yourself is easier. Because if it turns out you don't get a chance with him, you will have changed for nothing. You should never have to change yourself for a guy, even if he feels worth it.
-TheTeenGirl
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OOOOK...dude...first of all...he never knew you liked him so you have no right to be jelous cuz that didnt stop him at all...but if u wanna..start a cat fight in the middle of the hall with his ex for making him upset...OR...seduce him...its up to you.
Have Fun.
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If I could make a movie or a book out of my high school years this would be the main plot. Give him another shot. "You wrong me once, shame on you. Wrong me twice, shame on me."
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Angstyangstynangst.
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It's okay to be jelous and mad. I understand that you really like this guy. He will get over his girlfriend and maybe you should try to get his attention again. If you really like him dont let him go. Start talking to him again. It was wrong of him to ignore you in the first place but you shouldnt be mad at him for going out with some one else. So.. start talking to him again! x0
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Try talking to him and asking him what's the deal. If he's still going to be mean, then just forget about him! You can do better!
♥ Always,
Maria
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