Question Posted Wednesday February 23 2005, 6:04 pm
I cant help it! i dont know what to do. I make tons of promises but i can NEVER keep them. I will sware to a person that i wont tell anyone something just so they will tell me, but then i got and tell people what i heard? what should i do? i want people to tell me stuff but i dont want to keep it a secret...
ALSO...i constantly lie...i lie a LOT. about everything almost...idk what to do
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Famerette09 answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 6:13 pm: If you want people to trust you then you cant tell people! You know what could help you is if someone asks you to keep a secret say i promise i will try too...so when you accidently tell someone it then its not like you lied! But the thing is if people tell you something and they ask you to keep a secret...they WANT you to keep it a secret! I dont know what to tell ya if I were you I would try my hardest not to say anything! Or something else is if someone tells you something and you promise not to tell anyone then just get a notebook that no one else looks at and just write it in there so that you dont have to worry about keepin it in you! Now the lieing thing I cant help ya with because its all up to you..People dont like it when other people lie but some times you have to lie to protect yourself but the thing is if someone asks you something but you dont want to tell them the true answer say something like i dont wanna talk about it or i cant tell ya because then you arent lieing but you also arent tellin them! I hope I helped!
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