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gone but not gone at the same time....


Question Posted Sunday March 6 2005, 2:00 pm

15/f
ok.... there's this guy at school that i made friends with over the last six weeks or so and i was really looking forward to his friendship cz he's a great guy.... but then something HORRIBLE happened... he took some tranquilizers before school about a week ago and was COMPLETELY high...so i helped him get through 2nd period and then walked him up to 3rd (we have those classes together). well, he got caught that day and now his parents are making him transfer to another school and i was really upset cz i thought that would be the end of it....but then i got a note from him through his cousin saying thankyou for helping him and stuff and asking for info on contacting me...that was when he was at his aunt's cz his parents kicked him out of the house so he could get on the internet and call people for short periods of time...so i wrote him back and now he's back at his own house and that's good but not really cz he can't get online or call anyone or anything there. so now i'm scared that he might do something to himself or something cz he's not the kind to just sit and be quiet...he HAS to talk...and he's tried to hurt himself before.... i've emailed him and all, but ya...i cant really get in touch with him... do y'all know anything that could help me get my mind off of all this for the time being so i can hold on to my sanity? Sry it's so long... i'll rate high...and plz don't write anything if all your gunna do is put me down or something...cz that's not helpfull.
thanx


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CaitlinCrane answered Sunday April 10 2005, 4:01 am:
ahh that sucks....if i were u id prolly email his parents and tell them how ure feeling, like caitlyn said...but id also pray about it and read the bible and talk to ur parents about it to see what they think about it...im really sorry that happend tho...:(

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princesswehr answered Sunday March 6 2005, 6:01 pm:
Wow, im sorry you have to go through that. Im in high school and i have so much drama going on right now, just because there are girls in this world who cant except the fact that their x-boyfriends can be good FRIENDS with another girl. But anyways, if theres no possible way you can go to his house and get a hold of his parents, or talk to him, then i suggest going to the movies with some girlfriends. Or reading, or going out to eat with friends. I know anything would be better then the feeling you must feel now. Just try to remember that everyone goes through hard times in this crule world, and sometimes certain people cant handle it. But that dosnt mean that you have to get caught in it. Dont stress, just pray for him. Im sure everthing will work itself out!
Good luck xoxo ash

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Famerette09 answered Sunday March 6 2005, 5:04 pm:
Okay what i think you should do is maybe send an email or call his parents and tell them how your feeling! If you really truely think he might hurt himself you need to make sure he gets help! dont sit there and do nothing! Make sure you can help him by letting somone know so that they can help him! IM me if ya need to talk!
*CaItLYn*

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