ok, well i have started cutting because of problems i have at home, well now i started to do it for fun, and i dont know why i like to do it, but i do. and its not for attention because know one knows i do it. well anyways, i get urges to do it even when there are no probems at home. i dont know whats wrong with me, i mean i know its wrong and i shouldnt be doing it, but i just love to hurt myself. i need some advice, weather its what i can do to stop, or if you know why i like to do it for fun. plz help
mykonstantine101 answered Sunday March 27 2005, 1:39 pm: hey.. cutting doesn't solve anything.. i was a cutter but i've stopped.. so you should stop... if you find it hard..which you will get rubber bands.. and where em.. and whenever you get the urge to cut.. just snap the rubberband.. your hurting yourself but not soo badly.. I hope i helped..
S_C answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 9:27 pm: I could simply answer this in four words. You're addicted to cutting. I know, because I was and sort of still am. I have managed not to cut in a while, but at first you do it because of the stuff going on in your life, then it's like you like doing it even though you know it's wrong. And then after a while you do it for the heck of it. It's definitley hard to stop. You do need to tell someone, like a trustworthy friend or teacher. Or a parent, or a councilor. But you need to tell someone so you can get help. It can be super dangerous if you don't stop. I know that it's SUPER hard to quit, it's like a really bad really hard to quit habit, but there's not much you can do about it. I know how you feel, I've been there done that, and it's not something I like reminiscing about, but it's a part of my life that I have to learn to live with. But you definitley need to get some help to get over the addiction. There are sites I've used for people, I'm not on my computer, and I have the site listed under favorites, but I think the site is listed on my column in another question I've answered, there's something like cut it out in the link, so that's how you'll recognize it. Go there for any help. Good luck. [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
KrazieSweetLover answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 9:18 pm: I`m going through it to. I Meen first it was becuse my mom being a bitch, but then I kinda got into it. My friend is like that to. Its like a habit, I think thats why you do it. Or possibly because your really unhappy with your life and pain and blood seems like nothing compared to what you what to be doing. But honestly I think you should stop. I know it really hard, but it really doesn`t help and i fanyone finds out you will HAVE TO GO to a mental home.& no1 deserves to be called crazy just because they are unhappy & made a poor choise. I really hope I helped you out. [ KrazieSweetLover's advice column | Ask KrazieSweetLover A Question ]
p_rOd answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 9:12 pm: well i donno this is just a guesss but maybe you like doing it beacuse you were used to it before and now you think ..hmm maybe if i cut all my problems will go away but sorry if thats wrong ..if you really want to stop doing this you could always go talk to a counseler .someone who could really help you get over it..im here if you need to talk
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seansbabygurl answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 8:58 pm: You really do need to stop. When you feel like you want to hurt yourself then try calling a friend or do something that will keep you entertained so that you will forget about it. [ seansbabygurl's advice column | Ask seansbabygurl A Question ]
Relient_K answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 8:49 pm: please I dont know why you are diong this but STOP! you could get seriously get injured.I knew a guy once who did that and he died. please talk to someone you know...now and hurry.{dont do it anymore} [ Relient_K's advice column | Ask Relient_K A Question ]
x0s0uljahx0 answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 8:06 pm: hey this is x0s0uljahx0 (savannah)
i know from the past bc i did it two and i liked doing it twho but one day i was talking to one of muh freinds and then i though to muhself when im older and maby if i get married or have kids will i want muh kids to see that it doesnt look good when it leaved scares... i have this guy alex carved into muh arm and its never going to go away i have hade it for years ..anyways yeah i wouldnt want muh little girl or boii seeing that on muh arm and then having them do it thinking that its ok bc there mom did it...what if it went two deep and there was nothing you could do about it...its not something you can take back its a perminate disition ...that i dont think anyone is ready to make...and if u do live throught it you will have to be like in like mental hospitals and shit ....i hope i helped write back to me if i did .....thanks... [ x0s0uljahx0's advice column | Ask x0s0uljahx0 A Question ]
ballerina04 answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 7:46 pm: Cutting isn't going to help you. You need to get help. Talk to a guidance counselor at school, tell someone who you trust, or go visit a counselor. Put a rubber band aroind your wrist, and snap it whenever you feel like you're going to cut. Send me a message or IM me if you need to talk. I know what you're going through. ♥ Kristen [ ballerina04's advice column | Ask ballerina04 A Question ]
RaE612 answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 7:37 pm: honey.. we all have alot of problems.. but cutting yourself will not help one bit.. it will just make matters worse.. if anyone finds out.. your gonna have 2 explain 2 them whats going on and you might not want 2.. i know your having problems at home.. but theres gonna be WORSE things.. TRUST me.. i know.. hope i helped!! lots of lovee!! ~rachel leigh~ [ RaE612's advice column | Ask RaE612 A Question ]
x3babiigurlx3 answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 7:27 pm: its a addition like drugs and achol and for that you need to get some help to stop you because you can kill your self by doing that and i don't think youu want to die.......
SugaHigh answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 7:22 pm: It's an addiciton, just like drugs, ciggarettes, and alcohol. You're used to it now. You need to tell somebody about it. Talk to a parent, or a guidance counseler. or at least a friend. you could get treated or go to classes where they help you stop. I read Cut, and I'm not sure, but I think at the end they have some websites and phone numbers you can call to get help. One of my magazines has it... I will check and let you know.
bunnyslipperzrok answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 7:03 pm: please stop. this is for your own good! that is really bad! please that is not kool!
when u have an urge think about what people will think if they find out, or think of some one you like seeing ur cuts [ bunnyslipperzrok's advice column | Ask bunnyslipperzrok A Question ]
x0xdReAmEr answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 6:58 pm: well if you've been cutting to yourself for a long time and your probely just use to it! but just try to quite like do less amd less cutting and that should get you through it! i hope everything goes ok! =) x0x [ x0xdReAmEr's advice column | Ask x0xdReAmEr A Question ]
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