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hey! i have this awesome boyfriend but sometimes it seems like he blames alot of the problems on me like its never his fault(he has tryed to make things betta be4 not rly but most of the time he does this).. n i know its my fault sometimes obviously, i just dont no what to say when i have a problem because i dont want to start a hole nother fite with him and feel like shit again the next day.. i love him n he loves me i think communication is the problem were kinda shy around eachotha, i just dont no wat to say! n im really outgoing and cool around everyone else! n i guess he thinks we fight alot n yea its kinda true but the loves still there nmw n i just wanna make it work!
PeAcE-- u no me all too well kiddo to not know who this is!
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heyy, i think you have to put your foot down on this guy and tell him, "hey this is where i stand, i am sick of having stupid arugments with you" and tell him if you want to really be with me then you will show me by your love and affection, and stop aruging. Or
maybe he just needs you to open him up, ask him whats up and on his mind. Or show him a good time and show him thats its okay to not be shy in front of you! But dont ever let a guy degrade you! Also be who you really are around everyone you care about. I know there are going to be those people out there who are going to snobs and mean and when its people like that its diffcutly to ignoire them cuz they act so intimating so just ignoire them, and totally be yourself, so just totally open up your boyfriend open your feelings to him because that way he can really see who and how you are. And if he dosent like it then dont even worry about it because hes not worth it, especially if he cant open up back. So just try opening him up first and then eventually talk about how the arguing and how it bothers you and makes you feel like crap! And then if he dosent understand the concept of that then just walk away, and find someone who would be worth aruging with but you would never have to because they wouldnt try aruging with you! alrighty, i hope i helped you out!!! good luck and write back and tell me how it goes!PeeAcccEEE blaze on
<3 chrissy walsh
ps-sorry for al lthe spelling mistakes
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