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okay well i have a bf and hes gone for about 2 weeks so i wont be able to see him and i barley get to talk to him. but the thing is wen hes not gone we dont talk (well barley anyway)) and the thing is im started to like this other guy. and i dont want to but then again i do becuz hes not shy unlike my bf and idk what to do im so confused right now. please help me.
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Well, the thing is that "barley" is actually spelled "barely". Ok, now.. I think you sould be honest wit your boyfriend about it and then find out if this other guy likes you.
♥ cali and angela
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well if you start to go out with the new guy, he may start to be shy around you cause he likes you alot! so i would be careful and take percaution!
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Hi,
I think the best thing thing to do is follow your heart. I can clearly see that your current bf is not up to par with you. So, the two things u can do is talk to him about it and your expectations or tell him that he is not your type and its better if u break up.
Love always,
Miss Advice
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whats the point in dating him if he dont talkt o you? whats the point, if he dont talk to you i cant see him doing much more.. ditch the fag.. date the new guy.. you seem young so you will have plenty of time for a long term relationship later.. enjoy yourself while you are young!
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Well, I guess it all depends as to whether you want to stay faithful. Is this guy REALLY worth staying faithful to or is he going to break your heart? In my opinion, I think you should talk to your boyfriend about where you stand, guys can't mess you about like that. Good luck, hun!
P.S If you want to talk more, puddycat11@hotmail.com is my email, feel free to add me and I can advise you more :)
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well i think you should be able to talk to your bf no matter the distance between you to. I would talk to your bf about his shyness level and i would tell him that you think you should be able to talk. Because the key to a growing relationship is communication. And if he isnt talking then your relationship with him isnt going anyhwhere fast.
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I know how you feel. I went through the exact same thing when I went to camp. My boyfriend and I had started to break apart before I left and I started to like a guy I met a camp. Well, I decided to break up with my boyfriend at the time and go for the guy from camp. It turned out to be a great choice. I think the best idea for you is to break up with your boyfriend, no offense, since you seem to like the other guy more and you seem to have a bit more of an attraction to him. Best of luck,
Elli
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Well of you think about it you don't have a bf ecuz if you did he would call you when ever he get a chance. He is probly with another gurl, my advioce to you is to hook up with that other guy you like and if it was ment to be god will put yall together.
sign:Missloudy
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well you obviously have feelings for the other guy more then you do your BF. break up. follow your heart and go out with the other guy.
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i think u shold just break it off with your boyfriend if there is just noconnection. go for the other guy!
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your bf brought this on himself. it would be unfair to stay with him and like another guy. dump him. ps i am a guy and i agree that shy mates suck.
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break up with him. duh. its not fair to him, and shy guys suck. were not little kids.
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You should be with someone that talks to you and you feel comfortable with. You shouldnt be with someone that you are not happy with. This new guy that you are starting to like sounds more like your type then your current type. I think you should be with whoever you want and if you feel that you dont want to be with this guy then you shouldnt be with him.
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If you and your boyfriend barely talk--and yet you can talk to this other guy freely who do you think you are more COMPATIBLE with? Its important to date people you can really talk to for hours on end. If I were you I would try to get out of your current relationship as quick as possible (to avoid any avoidable extra hurt feelings) and get to know this other boy better.
I hope I helped.
-Nina (:
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Okay.. you need to talk to your boyfriend before you do ANYTHING else. If he's just shy, then try to get him to open up more. Just sit down and ask him why he won't talk to you, because if you're dating he should be. If he doesn't change, tell him that you don't want to be together anymore, and go for the other guy. Who knows, maybe you'll end up loving him. Or maybe one day you & your current boyfriend will get back together. But if he can't talk to you, the relationship isn't going to work. Good luck!
♥ Melissa
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First, you have to evaluate what YOU WANT FOR A RELATIONSHIP. You have to evaluate what you want for and in a relationship. This will help you a lot. Then you have to see if your current boyfriend meets the criteria of your values for a relationship. If you feel like, at the time, that it isn't right to look at your values, then don't at that time. Try looking at your values when you're the most relaxed. Perhaps, you should try and talk to your boyfriend about talking more perhaps. Or maybe you should find out more about his interests that he's into and really just get into them. Don't force him or anything to talk to you, but let him know that you do wish for more talking in your relationship. Also, if he doesn't necessarily meet all the criteria of your values, then don't be so quick to go and dump him. Get to know the other guy and that'll take time before you dump your current boyfriend over him. Getting to know him will not hurt anyone . It'll just ensure if you'll continue to like this guy or not. Get to know him and see with time if your boyfriend will change . If he doesn't change, and the other guy meets the criteria of your values for a relationship, then dump the current boyfriend and go for it.
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