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Question Posted Tuesday November 8 2005, 2:35 pm

ok im 13 years old and i think i might be bisexual...i've had ALOT of boyfriends(like more then 30) I just moved from NY to LA Cali. I have a friend that is bi and latly when i hang out wiht her i feel these weird feelings for her. What should i do????

I rate4 HIGH!!

~LiLy~

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MYLOVExx answered Monday December 4 2006, 2:11 am:
You're still pretty young and its not uncommon for your age to feel "weird" around different sexes because you havent yet figured out who you really are yet..

I would suggest experimenting with her, maybe starting out with just kissing...if you dont feel comfortable, stop right away because that uncomfortableness must ruin your friendship. If you dont feel "right" at all, then maybe it's just a stage youre going through trying to figure out who you are.

♥

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chrirett answered Saturday November 12 2005, 1:40 pm:
Eperiment with her. If shes a good friend, talk to her about that you are not sure about whether your bi an ask her if you two can try experimentin to find out. What's the worst that can happen? either you find out that you really are bi and you hav A LOT of fun with your m8 or you find out that your not bi and are no longer confused. Theres no harm in trying new things isthere?

hope i helped!

chris

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shannonsgirl answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 7:19 pm:
well if like she trys something that make you uncomfortable just say no and yea you could still be friends with her and if you are bi it aint a bad thang

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MissAdvice answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 4:13 pm:
It is not rare for young women to have these feelings or even experiment. It is part of growing up.You don't have to worry about if u are bi or not, u might just be going through a phase.

Love always,
Miss Advice

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WIZBANG answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 9:28 am:
you want to know what you need to do? i'll tell you what you need to do. <b>GO TO CHURCH</B> listen to your heart. then make a decesion. your 13 you have a long life ahead of you to regret what you <u>may</u> or <u>may not</u> have done.

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tootsierollsweet999 answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 9:34 pm:
well what do you think ........do you ave strong feeling or just friends .............you decide no one can do it for you

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ThugGirl041790 answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 5:21 pm:
Mazybe experience and see if you like it.. and yes my dear sounds like your bisexual Muah loves ya.. &hearts; Dez need anymore advice hit me up in my inbox..

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hyperhottiegirl answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 4:12 pm:
tell her you like her if you think you are bi give it a try. also think about it though cause your only 13

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MELiixMARiiE answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 3:52 pm:
Well there is the possibility that you might be bisexual. People around this age tend to feel curious and want to experiment and such. So take awhile and figure out if you are or not. Hang around with other girls and see if you get the same weird feelings for them also. See if you actually have feelings for her and see if you like her, and if you really do... then I'd tell her. See how she feels about you and see what happens =] I hope I helped!




Love,
MELii

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HEYxBEAUTIFUL answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 3:51 pm:
If you feel that you are bisexual, then you probably are. You probably have been bisexual you just didn't know it. You shoudl talk to your Bi friend about it. <333

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rainbowNsunshine91 answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 3:07 pm:
If you have these feelings for your friend then you should sit her down and tell her how you feel. Keeping it a secret will only drive you CRAZY! If you aren't that bold then you should throw a few hints in to find out if the girl likes you or not. If she does, then ask her out and be happy!!!!!!!!!

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yourperfectdisaster answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 3:07 pm:
There is a possibility you could be bisexual. But also, a lot of people around this age are just..curious. Give it time to see if you actually ARE bisexual. Don't say anything at all right now. It can give you a reputation that you don't want. To help you figure out if you are bi or not, ask yourself some questions. Can you imagine you and your friend being 'together'? Can you see yourself kissing her?

Remember, even if the answer is yes, it could just be curiousity. Don't take it too seriously right now because as I said, you don't want to get a bad reputation. They can ruin a lottt.

Think about it for awhile.

=)

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