Question Posted Wednesday November 2 2005, 7:57 pm
ok so i was really good friends with this guy...lets say his name is..."Dave" ok so me and dave were wicked close and then he asked me out and i said yes,it was ok for a while and then i didnt think it was rite so i said lets go back to being good friends. then he stopped talking to me. i keep asking him to talk to me and lets start being friends again but he says its hard and hes trying to be nice and stuff but is it him or what should i do so things can just...go back to normal? someone please help me thanks
Additional info, added Wednesday November 2 2005, 8:12 pm: i already tried talking to him but hes says hes 'trying' to talk to me but i no hes really not its been a long time that ive been tryin to get back to friends so should i give up or keep waiting? . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Krazibeachbabe65 answered Thursday November 3 2005, 8:17 pm: well i guess he really likes you and wants to be more then friends. it prob. doesnt feel right being friends for him and it might take a long while to become friends again for a while i think you should leave him alone n then ttry to talk to him [ Krazibeachbabe65's advice column | Ask Krazibeachbabe65 A Question ]
MELiixMARiiE answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 8:35 pm: Well it's kinda tough to go exaclty back to the way things were. Because he likes you more than a friend, and then you just want to go back to being friends. He probably just feels a little upset right now. Just let him get over it for a bit until he's ready to talk to you again. I mean, at least he's trying. Some people just completly ignore the other. So just.. give him some time. I hope I helped!
daddydiva answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 8:15 pm: hey
things like that almost always happen to me! i really just can't do much! if i was in ur place i would go talk to "dave"! tell him how i'm feeling! if he just gives you a totally lame answer than that's his problem. don't waste your time if "dave" is going to be like that
Teza answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 8:14 pm: Sometimes when people were really good friends and they go out and break up, things will be okward. What did you expect? I mean, I don't think he likes that he can't talk to you but he is probablly feeling weird right now. I defenetlly would. Just give him some time. I mean it probablly hasn't even been that long since you guys broke up, has it? Anyways, you guys will be friends again. Trust me. It's just how these things are. Just give him time and explain to him that just because you guys broke up doesn't mean you can't be friends again. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
GeorgiaGal48 answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 8:10 pm: you can always sit down and talk to him about it all brake ups are hard but if this happens just talk to him about it you want to be good friend but its not the same anymore tell him you would like it to be ok between you two [ GeorgiaGal48's advice column | Ask GeorgiaGal48 A Question ]
karenR answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 8:03 pm: He probably is still trying to get over you.
I think you will probably be friends again at some point, but right now just give him a little time to mourn the loss of your relationship. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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