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Not Sure
There's this guy that I'ved like for about a year or so now and he's told me that he's liked me to. We've hung out outside of school a lot and everything went great. I really love who I am when I'm with him. He's such an amazing person and I love spending time with him. The only problem is that lately he's been distancing himself from me because he's afraid to get hurt. When he told me that I seemed to distance myself from him so I didn't fall even harder just incase it didn't work out. I still have really strong feelings for him and we talk all the time, I'm just not sure on what I should do. I've told him how I feel. I think I really love him. Should I lay it all out on the table and tell him everything I think about him and the way he makes me feel or should I just give him his space until he figures out what he's feeling?
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If u give him space he might go even farther from u,I mean if hes afraid of getting hurt and if u dont tell him all what u feel and think he might start feeling insecura and it would be worst.
Dont be afraid of opening up he seems like areally sweet guy,tell him the truth,and most important,tell him not to be scared,that u love him,and that u wouldnt want to hurt him.Give him confidence and after u open up give him time.
Wish u the best of the lucks.
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I think you need to ask him that. Ask him if he wants space, or ask him if he wants an explanation.
tell him you do care about him, and it's not your intention to hurt him.
Also, point out to him that there is a chance here that you might get hurt, too. Thats what a relationship is. It's a risk. f he's not willing to risk getting hurt for what might be absolutely wonderful, is he willing to spend the rest of his life alone... just because he's afraid of a little pain?
Its gonna happen. Everybody gets hurt. Whats important is what happens between the times you are hurt.
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it is good to tell people how you feel because if you dont you will really regret it.. i have done that alot! you need to tell him how you feel if you really feeel that way about him. i hope this helped!
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I think you could do both. Tell him exactly how you feel .. and if you have that strong of feelings for him, you'd wait for him until he figures out his feelings for you as well. Waiting might be hard. If he takes too long then maybe being friends is just something that has to happen there. But just flat out tell him everything you feel and have him figure out what he's feeling as well.. Good luck
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Well it does not seem like you need advice. you have got it all figured out. i guess he is going through some kind of thing we go through. its like a cheesy reality show thingy. i think you should just give him that space until he has gotten things settled. if you have a major feeling that he is about to stop likeing you because of this then you should start to come back closer to him because he is most likely over his thingy. ask me for more advice anytime i hope i helped.
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