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Gender: Female
Location: South Dakota
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
ICQ: 206650107
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Yahoo: kittyp17
MSN: sportslover_14@hotmail.com
Member Since: November 8, 2004
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Last Update: November 9, 2004
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does anyone have any advice for me. i have asked out about 20 people and have gotten a no from all of them. i dont know what i am doing that is wrong. can someone help me? please..... (link)
you need to slow down and chill. let the boys come to you it may take some time but it will happen. just take eachday as it comes and it will happen a boy will ask you out. good luck :)


I've been debating on whether or not I should ask advice about this, but I'll give it a shot and see what you have to say. My friend dates this guy in college, he has a butt load of hott friends. I'm 16, and they are all 17 - 20something. Well my friend has been telling me that she wants to hook me up with one of them. I met this guy, call him "bert", and I do like him. Problem is, I'm way to shy to even talk to him. I don't know much about him besides that he doesn't have a gf. I do know he is the type of guy that I would date. When I met him the other day, my friend told me he thought I was adorable because I don't talk. She does have a habit of lying to us, her friends. I'd like to get to know him next time I go with my friend to visit her boyfriend, but then theres the shyness. I dunno what to do. My friend "Alice" said she would email my friends boyfriend since they talk and ask about "bert" see what he's about. But is there anyway you could help me out? This probably sounds dumb. I'd kinda like to have a boyfriend, my last one was in May. But I hope I made sense. I'm gonna end this now. (link)
shyness is a very common thing. you need to breathe and relax and just be like hey whats up that always gets a conversation started and after that juat ask a few simple questions to help you get to know him and he will probably ask you some questions too. this will help alot. if you need anymore help just let me know.



Ok I think that I am fat, and I feel like I can't do anything about it. I have tried eating right and exercise and all of that but it doesn't work. I can't stop eating stuff, I work at Dairy Queen and I get a 50% discount on stuff and I always give in and eat there. I have stretch marks and I am going to have to shop at a "fat kid store" soon if this does not change. What should I do? What would motivate me to change this and how can I acquire the will power to change? (link)
I know this will sound hard but you need to resist the vert fatty foods like all the sweets there. your just going to ahve to slowly start eating less. its hard but you can do it, you just need to believe you can do it. i used to be the same way and it was hard at first but i did a step at a time and everything is ok now. just take it step by step and you'll slowly start eating right and you'll beome more active and your body will tone down. It wont happen all in one night have Patience.


I know there are always all sorts of questions about this kind of thing on here, but I figured I may as well ask and see what you think.
Our one-year anniversary is this sunday. I want to get my guy something interesting...something special. I'd get him jewelry or something, but he never wears jewelry, except one necklace he like...never takes off. I thought about getting him a Kama Sutra book (lol don't ask...my friend thought that up as a joke), but I dunno if I should. What can I get him or make him by sunday? Money's not much of a problem (for once, YES!! I HAVE a job!) so...I just need gift ideas. I appreciate any ideas. Thanks! (link)
If he plays video games find out his favorite game he has been wanting and get it for him a cd he has been wanting. i know how it goes guys are hard to shop for.


I love my BFF so much. We've known each other our whole lives. The problem is, this year, she has drastically changed. She hangs out with the 'popular' girls who smoke, do drugs, have sex, etc. She has started also to do these things. I know these girls are her friends, but they are a very bad influence on her. She used to be so brave and not care about what these girls did, she was herself. Now, I can't help missing my old best friend. She's changed the way she dresses, talks and barely even hangs out with me! I just don't know how to bring all this up to her at once, I feel like she'll get upset and be mad at me for being honest. What should I do? I need her in my life! (link)
It doesnt sound like she has been haning out with the popular crowd it sounds more like the druggies. the most you can do is slowly persuade her to stop and let her know its bad. But when things go bad for and she really needs a friend you should be there because then she will never forget you and listen to you more.


Hey i'm 13/f, and i think i just started to get discharge about a month ago... (its the whiteish yellowish stripe kind of thing in you underwear) just today there was an almost greenish kinda stuff in my private part... what is it? does it mean anything? also, im really skinny(like 76 lbs.) and maso/menos underdeveloped (im about 5 feet)... what is it and what should i do, and around when do u think i'll get my period? thanks!!
-5 feet (link)
if its green its definantly not normal and you should seek medical attention soon. It sounds like an infection of some sort and you should really see a doctor because if it is an infection it could cause some serious damage.




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