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does anyone have any advice for me. i have asked out about 20 people and have gotten a no from all of them. i dont know what i am doing that is wrong. can someone help me? please.....
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Stop asking out ppl! Asking out so many ppl makes u look desparate. And if you ask one person out after another, the person u ask out wont feel too special, u kno? Just think, if sumone just put every guy/girl (u didn't say if u were a guy or girl) in a line and asked each one of them out and then got to u, that would prolly mean she didn't like anyone but was desparate. Just lay low for a while and then ask someone out that u LIKE!! If u ask the right person at the right time, i'm sure everything will be fine.
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well you should get to know ppl before you just ask them out...
idk wut's wrong with you
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Well maybe it's not you or maybe it is. Most guys like confidnet and independent girls. Now I hate to burst your bubble but if you say that you asked at least twenty people out then you seem kind of on the desperate side. Just play it cool and maybe just maybe..the right guy will come along.
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you need to slow down and chill. let the boys come to you it may take some time but it will happen. just take eachday as it comes and it will happen a boy will ask you out. good luck :)
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Dont try to sound deperate. Just let them come to you. Maybe you are picking the wrong people. There are other fish in the sea but you dont have to ask everone out. Just wait you will have some one wonderful comming your way I can t feel it
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i certainly do. thats why im here.
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I will help you the best I can, so leave one in my inbox, and i will answer it most likely tomarrow (tuesday) night when I come back on.
Alexandra x3
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hey! first, you need to make friends w/ them, so if you ask them out, it won't be ask akward.. and then as i always say, do the "girl n' flirt" thing!! warm up to them and im sure they'll say yes!
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i dont have advice 4 yu. sry!
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Well, the best advice I can give you it to just chill out for a bit. Whether you are a girl or a guy, the advice is the same. Maybe people keep telling you no because you asre repeatedly asking people out in the hopes of somebody-anybody telling you yes instead of no. By you acting this way, to many, you may come off as a "player" or worst yet, even desperate. I don't mean to discourage you. It's good to get right back on that horse after you fall..but just not quite as much as you have been. People may think the only reason you are asking them out now is because the ptrevious person said no. Take the time to get to know someone, and let them get to know you..then let things take their natural course and ask them out. Don't rush it. :)
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