Gender: Female
Location: Caldwell, NJ
Age: 17
AIM: xlittleheiressx
Member Since: October 26, 2005
Answers: 6
Last Update: November 3, 2005
Visitors: 629
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today is my one month anniversary and i want ot spend time with my boyfriend but im not allowed to hang out during the week. so should i sneak out or wait to the weekend to come? what would you do? i rate 5s
thanks for helping
kriddle06 :) (link)
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I would wait for the weekend. Because if you go out, the you might get in trouble and not be able to see him anyway.
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I have this friend. She has been my friend all of my life literally but lately we've been drawing apart. :( what do i do to get this relationship back togeter? (link)
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Let the relationship take it's course.. I was always taught that your closest friends are the friends you can not to for months but when you do talk again, you start right where you laft off. And I totally believe it.
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heyy ok when i shave u no down there i get these little red bumps and i start to bleed from the bumps what should i do...i tried shaving the same way as the hair grows but that doesnt work and im NOT waxingg (link)
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When you shave, do it as you would normally but then go over it again the other way..
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welllll .. i made a HUGE mistake and umm kissed another boy while i was going out with my boyfriend and well he didnt dump me exactly and he always brings it up though =| idn what to do i cant live with this anymore. what should i do ? (link)
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First off, you can live with it. Everyone makes mistakes. What you should do, is think about why you kissed the other guy and then talk to you boyfriend and explain everything to me. Cause trust and truth in a relationship is most important. Now, even though I don't know your boyfriend, I can guess he doesn't have the same amount of trust for you as he did before. So by talking to him, you will slowly gain that trust back.
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I'm not sure exactly what I should or even can do for my cousin. I'm 19/f and he's 17/m and we were really close growing up, almost like brother and sister. I knew a while ago that he smoked pot and I've been telling him to stop and everything, but I had no idea how bad it really was. Last night we had a really long conversation online (we live 4 hours away now) and I guess he smokes enough to get "the shakes" after 2 days of not having any. I had no idea he smoked that much, I thought he only did it every so often. He also told me that he cuts and that he's attempted suicide on and off since he was FIVE YEARS OLD! I don't think that he would really go through with it, but it's so scary to know that he's thinking that seriously about it. He started smoking really heavily when he broke up with his girlfriend. She cheated on him and then dumped him because he didn't trust her anymore. He says that pot is all that is keeping him alive since then. His parents divorced when he was really young and his father has been married two times since and is now going through his third divorce. My cousin lives with his mother and her second husband which have a very bad influence on him. They live a really horrible lifestyle and abuse him by giving their own children more priviledges, making him babysit, and not allowing him to have certain things around the house like soda or peanut butter. He's been through a lot of relationships, some since the girl I mentioned before and he's far from a virgin. Our family has treated him like crap since he was born and they have such high expectations for him especially because he's the fourth of his name. They all love him though, especially me and I hate to see this happening to him. I'm really glad that he was honest with me, but I'm so worried about him. What can I do to help him? I've talked to him and tried to encourage him and I don't know if it's working. I hate to see this happen to someone I care so much about. Any advice at all would be wonderful. Sorry it's so long. (link)
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I have been in your cousins situation. I did drugs worse then pot, cut myself everyday for almost 2 years and tried committing suicide many times. Life's not easy and people handle it in many different ways. You said he gets the "shakes", it's withdrawl symptoms and they don't go away. But it does mean he smokes pot atleast 8 times a day. I am not going to say that I am an expert on this because I have experienced it, but I do know a lot. There really isn't a lot that you can do for him, except try to get him into a program or to tell someone else close to him, so they can confront him about it. But he MUST be confronted, or he won't think anyone cares - and you obviously care. As for his living conditions, it doesn't sound like tey help his situation.. it fuels him more to stay alone and smoke. The last thing you want to do is have him left alone. I don't know what your family's financial situation is but I want to a rehab center in Malibu and it's called "Malibu Horizon" and it's a great place. They help addicts and thier families. They helped me and I have been clean and sober since March 27, 2003.. You should look into it for your cousin, it will do him a world of good - even if he doesn't think so at first..
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f/14....is it normal to get "wet" when your boyfriend makes out with you? a little bit of touching below the neck but not past the stomach? (link)
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Yes it is definitly normal... so don't worry about it.
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