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i screwed upppp =|


Question Posted Thursday October 27 2005, 9:01 pm

welllll .. i made a HUGE mistake and umm kissed another boy while i was going out with my boyfriend and well he didnt dump me exactly and he always brings it up though =| idn what to do i cant live with this anymore. what should i do ?

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askmee04 answered Saturday October 29 2005, 10:44 pm:
you should tell your boyfriend how your really sorry and that you regret it. he must really love or or like you alot and want to be with you since he didnt leave you. even if he knows or not. but let him know that your really sorry and that it hurts you when he brings it up

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sillyrob answered Saturday October 29 2005, 10:22 pm:
You shouldn't kiss other guys. You should feel lucky he didn't dump your ass.

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LOL_x0x answered Saturday October 29 2005, 6:41 pm:
just say, i made a mistake, i wasn't thinking right im really sorry and it makes me sad when yu bring it up. tell him the truth!

x0x Laura

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SamanthaCaplan answered Saturday October 29 2005, 4:24 pm:
First off, you can live with it. Everyone makes mistakes. What you should do, is think about why you kissed the other guy and then talk to you boyfriend and explain everything to me. Cause trust and truth in a relationship is most important. Now, even though I don't know your boyfriend, I can guess he doesn't have the same amount of trust for you as he did before. So by talking to him, you will slowly gain that trust back.

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bittersweet17 answered Saturday October 29 2005, 3:55 am:
if it was a mistake and you actually told him he should give you some credit! atleast you told him most girls wont tell the man they are with. but he is probably just hurt and dosen't know how to deal with it. just talk to him and try to explian to him how it happened and explain that it was an accident. you didn't mean it and it wont happen again! good luck with your man girl!

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heatherbunny94561 answered Friday October 28 2005, 5:22 pm:
you should talk to him about communication is a big part of a relationship also trust but tell him you screwed up and your sorry and it will never happen again

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gamerz1991 answered Friday October 28 2005, 4:24 pm:
dumb the one irritates u and ignore him/it =P

good luck gurl

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ThugGirl041790 answered Friday October 28 2005, 1:29 pm:
Well yes that was a mistake and your boyfriend should behappy that you came to him and actually told him you did it instead of just tryin to keep it a secret and act like nothing happened.. tell him he should bring that up on you.. you know you screwed up and you wished that he'd except it and not use that against you.. tell him you know you hurt him and you`ll never do it again.. ♥ Dez

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kriddle06 answered Friday October 28 2005, 11:02 am:
tell him it was in the moment and it happened by accident

i really dont know what to tell you because i always did kiss another boy and i dont tell them shit. i just recently kissed my boyfriends best friend and he dont even know yet so how good am i

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mxpx4991 answered Thursday October 27 2005, 11:22 pm:
if keeps bringing it up he probly hurt by wat u did and if he doesnt let it slide. how long ago was it........if he keeps going just tell him 2 stop or break up with him. i know im a guy.

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karenR answered Thursday October 27 2005, 10:11 pm:
Everyone makes mistakes.

You need to sit down with the boyfriend and explain to him how it all happened. Then you need to tell him you are only talking about it this one time so if he has something to say or ask he needs to do it now.

You let him know that if he can't forget about it you are walking. You can't live with someone if they are going to treat you like you're a bad person. Even if their feelings were hurt. :)

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Altruistic answered Thursday October 27 2005, 9:49 pm:
You must have hurt your boyfriend a lot if he keeps bringing it up. He's probably scared that you might do something like that again. the best idea is to TALK TO HIM. Talk with him and tell him that you wont do it again or something. Try to gain his his trust again and prove that you won't do something stupid like that again. Trust trust trust. Good luck in gaining his back.

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funluvin27 answered Thursday October 27 2005, 9:42 pm:
ok this is what I'm figuring he's hurt.. hurt really bad but he loves you to much to break up with you. You can't really blame him for bringing it up.. he's upset but he doesn't want to lose you. He's doing this because he wants you to understand how much you hurt him.

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