my name is heather and im 16 years old everyone always ask me for advice and it always works. so im putting it out there to help others as well.
i might be 16 but i also know alot for my age mostly about love i have been a relationship for 3 years good time and bad so i know alot about love and crushes. i have also seen alot in my life new family members drugs abuse sexual abuse i know it all so ask me any question anytime and i will get back to you asap.
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ok. im 14/f. still a virgin and ive been thinking about having sex with my boyfriend. like when he hugs me from behind he'll just start humping me. and i know i tell him to stop but i like it. l.o.l. and he always puts his hands up my shirt. and i like it. but im ashamed of my body. i know im not fat...but i just think i am. i think my legs are at least. but... i dont know what to do. and i dont think thats all he wants from me. but i dont know....i masterbate alot and it feels good. and i want the real thing now but i dont know about it tho.
please help me. (link)
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it depends if you are ready if you think you are go for it but if this guy breaks up with you, you are going to feel really bad cause he is your first i lost my virginity when i was 13 luckly the guy dident leave me but after sex u get really emotionally attached you should really think about it before you do it
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I was due for my period about 10 days ago and it sitll hasnt come...is this bad??and when will it come again?
(i have had it for about 3 or 4 years now)
rate 5's for anything
ohh and im not pregnant (link)
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its normal your period wont become regular till 18 or 19 i have the same problems and thats what the doctor told me but u should go see a guynocologest or regular doctor to get some birth control cause you are more likely to get pergnant when ur period is not regular and also it could mess up that area if its not regular
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I am kind of scared because one of my friends got sexualy harrassed today, a guy lifted up her shirt in the hallway. One of my friends says that her boyfriend tried to rape her or sexually assalt her in the bathroom, she wont tell me if thats true. What should i do to get her to answer me, and what should i do about her harassment?? (link)
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you should report it i went through that when i was little and i regret it now call the police tell her u wanna talk about it. it might help her feel better about talking about these things it sure helped me
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ok well this is going to sound weird but i have sorta a large area down below my belly button, it sticks out alot i wan't to know if there are anyways i can "slim down" please answer quickly!!!
help please desperate (link)
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thats ur uturis maybe u can slim it down or your pregnant but try sit ups that could get that area smaller
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When you are makeing out with a guy or kissing him where should you out your hands. Or guys where do you prefer for girls to put there hands?
(I'm a girl) (link)
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i usually grab wereever but try like your hunging them or on their face
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can a girl get pregenent from anal sex
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nope only through their vagina if that was the fact i would have 100 kids by now
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welllll .. i made a HUGE mistake and umm kissed another boy while i was going out with my boyfriend and well he didnt dump me exactly and he always brings it up though =| idn what to do i cant live with this anymore. what should i do ? (link)
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you should talk to him about communication is a big part of a relationship also trust but tell him you screwed up and your sorry and it will never happen again
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ok hey, question for the girls. How would you feel if your boyfriend did something like this for you on Xmas. (by the way i am the male not the female lol) I get 2 roses, and put each in their own wrapped box. Ill say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will love you more," then give her the box and let her unwrap the first rose. then say "when this rose dries up and dies, you will love me more," then give her the box and let her open it. Then i will take a third box and say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will STOP loving you." and she will open the box, and it will be a glass rose. (for all the blondes out there, glass doesnt dry up and die ;-)) Ever. lol. what do ya think? (link)
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i think thats very romantic but get a plastic rose cause glass breaks i think u should do it its romantic something that make me cry
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ok i have a wierd question i dont no why im do enterested in rape im 13 f and i like to look at pics and read storeies of it.. is it like normal (link)
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its good to know about that stuff and to know how to deal with it. cause one day it might happen to you yes i think its normal i use to do that same thing at 13
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I'm not sure exactly what I should or even can do for my cousin. I'm 19/f and he's 17/m and we were really close growing up, almost like brother and sister. I knew a while ago that he smoked pot and I've been telling him to stop and everything, but I had no idea how bad it really was. Last night we had a really long conversation online (we live 4 hours away now) and I guess he smokes enough to get "the shakes" after 2 days of not having any. I had no idea he smoked that much, I thought he only did it every so often. He also told me that he cuts and that he's attempted suicide on and off since he was FIVE YEARS OLD! I don't think that he would really go through with it, but it's so scary to know that he's thinking that seriously about it. He started smoking really heavily when he broke up with his girlfriend. She cheated on him and then dumped him because he didn't trust her anymore. He says that pot is all that is keeping him alive since then. His parents divorced when he was really young and his father has been married two times since and is now going through his third divorce. My cousin lives with his mother and her second husband which have a very bad influence on him. They live a really horrible lifestyle and abuse him by giving their own children more priviledges, making him babysit, and not allowing him to have certain things around the house like soda or peanut butter. He's been through a lot of relationships, some since the girl I mentioned before and he's far from a virgin. Our family has treated him like crap since he was born and they have such high expectations for him especially because he's the fourth of his name. They all love him though, especially me and I hate to see this happening to him. I'm really glad that he was honest with me, but I'm so worried about him. What can I do to help him? I've talked to him and tried to encourage him and I don't know if it's working. I hate to see this happen to someone I care so much about. Any advice at all would be wonderful. Sorry it's so long. (link)
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yea i understand the parents some parents are just to immature to have children to begin with but try and confort him and tell him how it makes u feel when he says that i always wished i could when uncle passed tell him its not worth killing himself over life is what you make of it if he wants this problem fixed he needs to get out get a job and move out i did and im fine now i couldent be happyer after 5 years of depression and my father beating me maybe he just needs time to think about whats hes doing tell him how you would feel if he killed himself that might make him think about it less
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i know this is bad for me
so dont bother telling me to stop
i dont even smoke that regulary.. only when im stressed out lol
i always get dizzy?
is this normal? i mean ive only been smoking for about 3 months.. im not on 20 day.. im not even on 5 a week... more like 2 a week, it takes me about 2/3 weeks to get through a pack of 10.
could some one tell me why im feeling dizzy when i smoke?
thanks x x (link)
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you get dizzy because it messes with your blood flow to your brain when i started smoking it did that i started when i was 12 and now im 16 you should stop when its easy cause when u get up to a pack of day their is no stopping i smoke a pack a day and i have tryed to stop but its really hard.
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WHat if the whole skool find out that your pregnant. But you didn't want errybody to know. You told the one person you thought you could trust, and they told. What do I do? Should I deney it or should I say something to that person I told? (link)
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honestly it doesnt matter everyone is going to find out anyways when you start to show they were going to find out sooner or later but u should talk to the person you told and tell them not to decuss your personal life with anyone but you it was not her bussness to tell people in the first place
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my best friend is acting werid! she got mad at me because i told her i wanted my straightner back and she got all mad and didnt talk to me for the rest of the day and took me out of her profile.. what should i do? (link)
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you should talk to her and ask her whats going on show your friend that you care. sometimes their are things that can be wrong that you dont notice so you should ask your friend about it
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my ex boyfriend of over 2 months is talking to another girl but yet he still talks to me when he sees me and talks to me on aim and everything and he toild my friend that we was gettin back 2gether but we dont never get to talk about it becasue everytime we finally talk she calls him...he told me that it would be easier if we went to the same school and im moving to the school that he goes to next semester but i cant go right now like he wants me to because that would be crazy to move in the middle of the first semester ya know...he told all my friends he still likes me but he needs time to think and that he cares about me and likes me alot but its hard so what should i do? (link)
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make sure hes not playing with your emotions or with your head guys do that after break ups and be carefull.
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One of my friends think that i have been practicing witchcraft and black magic. She thinks i have become a witch and she keeps scolding me. I told her im not a witch and she keeps lecturing me; What should i do? (link)
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you should tell your friend to back off tell her if you were a witch u would be obsessed will candles and the color black and wereing a pintagram thats the witches sign star with a curcle around it i exsperianced with witch craft and freaky stuff happend.
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Ok, my gramma has cancer and shes dying. We dont think she will make it until Christmas. I have a big family, and we are all very close, so it's a sad thing. But for some reason, i just dont feel sad. I feel guilty, it feels like i dont care. I know i do care, but i dont feel sad. It seems like everyone else is sad except me. Am i like a bad person? Is this normal? Please help! (link)
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its normal im the same way and i see myself getting sad after the death in the family happens
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my best friend since auguest is a grade lower than me. well obviously she knew my crush (in my grade) because i would obsess over him every day. well she went out with my freind in my grade. they broke up. but then today, i head that she was going out with my crush and its true!! im so mad at her! how LOW is that?!!! shes like "i thought you didnt like him anymore" im like "COME ON thats why i talk about him and obsess over him every day!!???!!!! give me a effin break!" so i was a crying during school. i HATE THIS. she broke up with him but im NEVER going to forgive her for this!!!
what do i do? thanks 4 reading (link)
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i dont blame you thats bullshit but she should have asked you first and its just a guy their are alot of guys out their never let a guy come between you and a friend your friends will always be their when that guy is gone i learned that the hard way you should go up to her and tell her next time u try to date the guy i like ask me if u can take my feelings into considertation.
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Hey, there's this guy,...let's call him *Gavin*. Well, i dont know *Gavin* that well. but this is what i do know,...he's a football player, he's not real smart, he friends with alot of people and he's nice and funny, and a little retarded sometimes,...and i think he's shy,...but i kind of like *Gavin* but i dont know him that well,...what should i do to get to know him better? or for him to notice me? (link)
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honestly i think you should go up and talk to him u should make the first move.
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