my best friend is acting werid! she got mad at me because i told her i wanted my straightner back and she got all mad and didnt talk to me for the rest of the day and took me out of her profile.. what should i do?
DumBlondeCanHelp answered Friday October 28 2005, 5:22 pm: I know the exact correct answer to this. My friend had these gay troubles too. Leave her. Obviously shes obnoxious and not a good friend. If you choose not to, just remember your life will be ruined.
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Advicelady6798 answered Friday October 28 2005, 4:25 pm: Well i dont think you deserved to be treated like that unless you meant it in a mean but i doubt that if she is your friend. I think maybe you should write her a note and ask why she got so upset about soething like that. If she gets mad over things like that then she isnt really your friend. At least most friends dont treat you like that. Maybe if you ask her what her problem is will you be able to solve the mystery to her behavior. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
GlassTexan answered Friday October 28 2005, 4:15 pm: Really Confused,
Your friend must base her moods on the state of her hair. Clearly, her hair is a frizzy, nappy mess; thus, her mood is a frizzy, nappy mess.
I would suggest that you find a friend who likes her hair no matter what state it is in, and the two of you will live happily ever after.
Oh, and keep the straightner, because those things are super-handy. [ GlassTexan's advice column | Ask GlassTexan A Question ]
Ic3 answered Friday October 28 2005, 3:30 pm: It sounds to me like she has bottled up anger and took it out on you. If you have been friends for a long time then she has no right to act this way if she was truly your friend. That means she doesn't really hate you but that she's dealing with something and taking it out on someone she knows rather than a stranger. You should really talk to her and see if you can help her and find out what's wrong. [ Ic3's advice column | Ask Ic3 A Question ]
Chicken_flavored_eggs answered Friday October 28 2005, 3:29 pm: Take her out of your profile and then charge her a late fee for each day she doesn't give it back.
Tell her that your hair is demanding reparations (hopefully you are familiar with George from Seinfeld)
I'm kidding. Maybe she just had a bad day or you pushed a button. Sometimes it isn't what you say, but how you say it. If she is your best friend then you should be able to have a calm conversation about what happened.
Ask her if something is bothering her and that you have no beef, you just wanted it back. I doubt that her reaction had only to do with that simple question. There is probably something else going on. You won't know unless you talk to her. [ Chicken_flavored_eggs's advice column | Ask Chicken_flavored_eggs A Question ]
Miss_Jvl_2005 answered Friday October 28 2005, 3:26 pm: ok i think you need to sit down and talk to your friend because she got mad at you for no reason...ask her why she got mad just because you told her you wanted your straightner back and see why she took you out of her profile!! Seems like shes having a few problems of her own so try to talk to her and settle things wither her and see how things go...hope this helps
your friend,
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Ebok answered Friday October 28 2005, 3:17 pm: It might be a build-up of other things that have been bothering her. If you feel comfortable with doing so, approach her about. It's always a shame to lose a friend over some trivial argument. [ Ebok's advice column | Ask Ebok A Question ]
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