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What If???????????
WHat if the whole skool find out that your pregnant. But you didn't want errybody to know. You told the one person you thought you could trust, and they told. What do I do? Should I deney it or should I say something to that person I told?
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say something to the person you told.
everyones eventually gonna find out.
if your embarressed then deny it.
but if you just dont care anymore...
dont deny it.
but then think...if u do deny it and everyone finds out that u are then they might get mad that you lied to them.
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"Errybody" is going to find out anyway. You know, when your stomach gets big. BUT if i were you i'd go up to the person and say, "WTF i thought i could trust you!" Then after she says something back, PUNCH HER!!!
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honestly it doesnt matter everyone is going to find out anyways when you start to show they were going to find out sooner or later but u should talk to the person you told and tell them not to decuss your personal life with anyone but you it was not her bussness to tell people in the first place
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The best thing is to not say anything to her. If she was truly your friend she will tell you that she told. Dont deny it just dont say anything. Because you say something to someone that asks they may tell someone else and the story will be totally different. By the time it gets back to you it will be something totally opposite to what you said. If you dont say anything it will eventually blow over and something else will happen that they will be talking about. Dont tell that friend anything else because it sounds like you cant trust them.
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ok - well who ever you told isnt a friend - you should just go up to them and be like ok i thought i could trust you - and if she said i didnt do anything be like yeah right
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Well it's not like you are going to be able to keep it a secret for long anyways. But if someone asks, tell them it's none of their bussiness.
And I would tell the person who blabed that you are very dissapointed they couldn't keep your secret that you trusted her with. That kind of news should have only been shared with others when you were prepared to give it. This now puts you under even more stress than before.
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i wud punch that person SOOOOOO dam hard at the nose that it doesnt stand up..THE MADDER THE BETTER.So everyone around learns to not laff at u but to fear!!
PUNCH HARD!GOOD LUck!
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Well, eventually everyone is going to know. You know, when your stomach starts getting bigger. Sure it sucks that the person you thought you trusted told everyone, but in the end you shouldn't have had unprotected sex at the age of fourteen. Then you wouldn't have gotten pregnant in the first place and no one could have found out.
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Approach the person you told and ask them about it before pointing any fingers. Denying it isn't exactly going to help due to the fact its useless to try and hide after the first couple of months. As I said before, you need to discuss it with the person you told more than anything.
P.S. If people at school start tormenting you about it they are not worth the stress, you will find that you most likely have true friends you never knew you had--the people that accept you for your mistakes and won't judge you on this one factor.
Goodluck,
Nina
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ok well you should sit down and talk to the person who betrayed your trust like that. its so awful that the person did that to you. dont deny it because no one will believe you, they only believe what they WANT to. if your parents dont already know, it would be a good idea to tell them. if rumors are going around its best to hear it from you and not from some other parent.
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i think you should confront the person that you told because i dont think its right that you trusted them not to tell and then they go off and tell other people but if i was you i would confront this person you told and see why they told everybody else...hope this helpes
your friend,
Jessica
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No sense denying it. If you continue with school they will notice soon enough. If your parents don't know...tell them. Don't let mom hear about it at the grocery store.
I would definitely ask the person who you told why they thought they had to betray your trust.
That isn't even a nice thing to do. I wouldn't trust them with any other info anytime soon. Let them know that too. :)
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