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what a low BEEP
my best friend since auguest is a grade lower than me. well obviously she knew my crush (in my grade) because i would obsess over him every day. well she went out with my freind in my grade. they broke up. but then today, i head that she was going out with my crush and its true!! im so mad at her! how LOW is that?!!! shes like "i thought you didnt like him anymore" im like "COME ON thats why i talk about him and obsess over him every day!!???!!!! give me a effin break!" so i was a crying during school. i HATE THIS. she broke up with him but im NEVER going to forgive her for this!!!
what do i do? thanks 4 reading
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Hey... ok well thats really messed up of your so called "Best" friend.. and you shouldn't be friends with her because who knows what else she'll do, and I've been through this same problem but i got over the kid and i just ignored the girl, and things just went back to normal. Well hope i helped!
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NeVer_Noticed
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Ugh! I don't think that you should be friends with her anymore. First of all, you said that you've been "best friends" since August...That's barely 3 months. How do you know what kind of person she is? A true friend wouldn't go out
with her friend's crush. Also, she's a grade lower than you...she's younger and seems to be more immature. I'm sorry that this happened! I guess the moral is to really get to know a person before you talk about personal things (like your crush)
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well we all have relationship probs. but this one is LOW. what do you think you should do? not be friends with her? have you talked to him or her lately? You can always CRUSH but if he's taken then you can't help that. And thats weired cause a story happened to me almost exactly like that... and i got over it. The girl was my friend. And the guy i crushed..ooo she liked him too much! i was mad .. they kissed and everythng we were in 4 th grade! but you know what i did...i got over it... . and he asked me out last year[finally].
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That's very wrong, and I understand completely how you feel. For her to hurt you like that means she doesnt care about you as a friend breaking up with him or not. She was either looking for attention, or she just wanted to see you hurt. I understand people make mistakes but that was to big to be one. Dont let her or anyone else(ur crush) see you cry its only going to show that you give in easily. Im not going to say you shouldn't be her friend anymore, although I wouldn't, just think it out, Just dont stoop down to her level, dont try to hurt her it will only make things worse. Just remember truee friends dont hurt you, they help you when your hurt. I hope I helped, if you have anymore problems please email me bigbootycuty. Remember theres no right or wrong decision.
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I agree with you that this is below low. This was a definite act of betrayal. I know how devastating this is for you right now and you need some time to collect your emotions. But, for your sake you do need to forgive her. This is for you and not her. Remember, she at least did break up with him when she saw how strongly you felt about this. She made a mistake. You've made mistakes before and the both of you will again in the future. Her breaking up with him shows she is remorseful. I'm not saying go running back to her and be her best friend. You should be cautious about her. She could definitely do something like this again to you sometime in the future. I am saying make peace with her. This is for you I am saying this. You really will feel much better and a stronger person in the long run if you do this.
Good Luck!
LULABELLE
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what a bitch. i would not be friends with this person...if she really cared about you she wouldnt be stealing your crush (which is just about the worst thing)and then denying the fact u like him. how stupid and immature can you get? shes not good enough to keep around if she just does stuff like that...i mean, how do you know if shes gonna do it again?
i hope ya get it all worked out.
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The only thing you can do is let her know that the friendship is over when she comes crawling to you. It was very low, you're right, but don't start fights or anything, shes a grade younger, just leave her alone. And not that it makes a difference, fighting solves absolutely nothing. All you can do is not talk to her anymore, you knew that she knew, so stop talking to her now, and as for your crush, let him be with her. I know it's painful to see, but how long do you tink it's going to last, honestly? Probably won't be long until it ends. If he wants to be with a girl who did the things that were done to you, then he'll see who hes dealing with after a while. Just give it time, and you'll see thats it's not as bad as you think.
-TheTeenGirl
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If you ask me i think she was a bitch but she tried to make it seem better by breaking up w/ him so I would forgive her she seems like an okay friend
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well talk to your "friend" -- be like come on i told you i liked him and you just ask him out - then be like i thought i trusted you - i never told you i didnt like him -- i hope i helped &hearts -- taylor
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i dont blame you thats bullshit but she should have asked you first and its just a guy their are alot of guys out their never let a guy come between you and a friend your friends will always be their when that guy is gone i learned that the hard way you should go up to her and tell her next time u try to date the guy i like ask me if u can take my feelings into considertation.
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I know friends like that. Tell my friend a secret and what does she do makes sure that it doesnt happen for me. Your friends are suppose to support you know matter what and they are not suppose to make sure things that you want not happen. If she is goin gto do that then she is not your friend. The best thing to do is to either forgive her this time but tell her not to do it again or not forgive her and get him. Maybe if you just asked him to go to the movies with your friends and his friends you could get him to like you instead of your friend.
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Find someone to play a violin for you and your stressful teenage life.
I'm on this site because my advice kicks ass. The only thing that sucks here is your situation.
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