this question is for girls who are in cheerleading, good in science, Plays the viola, is outgoing, and has a reputation for being nice.
The reason for so many details is because i have a crush on a girl who is all this and i wanna know what you see in a perfect guy and if someone had a crush on you, would you avoid them or how would you respod when you wer 11 or 12 {thats the age of the girl, not me, Im thirteen so im legal}? Another reason for the detasils is i believe there are steriotypes.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? TheHeadHonchoPoncho57 answered Sunday October 30 2005, 5:47 pm: I'm 16, but I have a good idea what 11-and-12-year-old girls want, mainly because I was 11 at one time and I have a 13-year-old sister. Just because a girl cheerleads, plays the viola, is good at science, etc. doesn't mean that her taste in guys differs from any other girl. Most girls that age would probably say "0h I want a guy who treats me well blah blah blah" to sound deep, but actually, the guy that attracts the attention is almost always g0nna be h0t and popular (the more unattainable, the better). He has to be not nerdy and geeky, because she's afraid she'll look nerdy and geeky as well. Give them about 3 more years they'll start looking beyond shallow qualities. Of course, there are always exceptions, but don't count on it.
How would she respond if a guy had a crush on her? It depends on the maturity level. Maybe her hormones haven't kicked in yet and she isn't really ready for guys. But most girls usually have gotten past that by 11 or 12. If you're popular and/or alright-looking and at least had a decent social reputation, she most likely wouldn't react really bad. [ TheHeadHonchoPoncho57's advice column | Ask TheHeadHonchoPoncho57 A Question ]
snickerzz11 answered Sunday October 30 2005, 12:48 pm: ok, so im not all those things. but, im pretty sure im a lot like her (even the age close to the same) so here's my answer:
First of all, if you want to get her attention, absolutely do not try and show off. Most girls hate that, because it's really annoying.
Also, if she's 11, and your 13, you should prolly forget it. This would mean she was at least 1, maybe 2 grades behind you, and she probably has her own crush. If you still love her several years later, you might try to do something about it.
Really, the best thing you can do is just be nice, and friendly to everyone. If your not nice to some people, she might think that you wont be nice to her, and that will make a bad impression.
Sorry this answer was so long, but I hope I helped! ♥ [ snickerzz11's advice column | Ask snickerzz11 A Question ]
cheerleadrx4 answered Saturday October 29 2005, 11:20 pm: well i don't play the viola and i'm not that good in science && idk about the nice thibg so idk if this will help but what i see in a perfect guy is somebody who acts themselves around you and who will call you all the time if you are going out and somebody who has a sense of humor...i don't really care on looks.. and i think you should ask her out or whatever you were going to do with her?? [ cheerleadrx4's advice column | Ask cheerleadrx4 A Question ]
blue_eyed_beuty answered Friday October 28 2005, 6:06 pm: every girl is differnt babes. but im like that person (but i play the cello). umm i like guys that are outgoing and really make me laugh/smile. also sweet guys. not shy ones, thats boring. also guys who tell u wut they feel/how their feeling but not OVERLY.
babigirl500 answered Friday October 28 2005, 5:18 pm: first this isnt a perfect guy so dont sweat!
well no good is like that but im kinda like that so , but it doesnt matter who you are mostly all girls look for someone who is cute smart, nice funny outgoing and senstive...but you should see what she likes and get to know her..never change yourself for someone else someone should like u for you [ babigirl500's advice column | Ask babigirl500 A Question ]
LoveNJstyle answered Friday October 28 2005, 4:48 pm: 11 and 12 year old girl: "ii want some1 really HAWT becuz yeah ill make every1 like me"
now, if this was a more mature person... id have to go with a really nice guy that shows common interests and is outgoing. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
MissJessicaPaige answered Friday October 28 2005, 4:34 pm: I'm almost exactly like that,...almost, i'm notta a cheerleader but i like messin around doin cheers. i like a guy that isnt real retarded, but thats funny, and whenever does something he gets all serious and is just like, whenever you mess him up "Gosh! Let me fininsh,..." but like in a playful way. [ MissJessicaPaige's advice column | Ask MissJessicaPaige A Question ]
sillyrob answered Friday October 28 2005, 4:33 pm: I'm pretty sure there are only about five or six girls out there like that, and none of them inhabit this website. [ sillyrob's advice column | Ask sillyrob A Question ]
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