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I am kind of scared because one of my friends got sexualy harrassed today, a guy lifted up her shirt in the hallway. One of my friends says that her boyfriend tried to rape her or sexually assalt her in the bathroom, she wont tell me if thats true. What should i do to get her to answer me, and what should i do about her harassment??
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ask her and tell the princaple or an adult.. fist tell her to tell him to stop and if it dont work then tell and adult
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you should tell her that your scared for her and that you want to help her get help.. if she did get sexually assulted she should tell someone even if she is scared or imbarrased it may be hard to let people know things like that but its better to hold it in. if its a rumor she should let everyone know it is so that the boy does not get in trouble and noone thinks differently of her
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Tell someone. Tell your mom or the guidance counselor about the harrasment. About the rape or sexual assualt. Sit her down one day, make sure you guys are great like no freind problems or anything. (a good place is outside for the air) Start talking about something similar to the rape subject and then say is it really true you were raped. You can tell me the truth... If it's true and she is all upset about it.. tell your mom or tell her mom or something... things like that need to be known.
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Not sexual harassment its sexual assault. Its against the law.
She should tell someone in charge and get someone thrown in jail.
You should encourage her to do that. When it comes down to it though, it is her responsibility to do so. It is also her right not to tell you anything if she chooses not to.
Even though it would probably make her feel better if she had someone to talk to.
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Dear What Happened,
Being scared for your friend just means that you care. Let your friend know that she can talk to you about anything. Give her your advice once and let it go. Tell her that she doesn't have to report anything she doesn't want to, but that she should not allow anyone to treat her disrespectfully. Don't nag her or try forcing her to talk about it. The harder you try to do something about her problems, the more she is going to resent you. This may lead to a quick end in friendship. If she doesn't take your advice then just be there when he learns the hard way and needs a shoulder to cry on. Good luck!
Sincerely,
Honestymatters
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you should report it i went through that when i was little and i regret it now call the police tell her u wanna talk about it. it might help her feel better about talking about these things it sure helped me
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WOW..., that would be really hard to deal with.Right now, the best thing you can do is just be a good friend to her, and dont pressure her to tell you aobut the sexual harrassment thing. She's gone thru enough embarrasment, and when she's comfortable enough to tell you, then she will. Just be really nice to her and try to include her alot..awe i feel so bad for her!
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Just sit down and have a talk with her. About the sexual harrassment thing tell her to tell an adult. about the boyfriend situation she should tell that boy off and set him straight. it sounds like right now all she needs is a good friend, maybe shes waiting for you to come to her aobut the situation.
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