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I have this friend. She has been my friend all of my life literally but lately we've been drawing apart. :( what do i do to get this relationship back togeter?
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we think yu should talk to her and ask, ' are we drifting apart'. and say, 'its making me sad and i want to stay friends'. just talk to her and give ehr a hug!
x0x Laura and Brooke
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i have the EXACT same problme right now. me and my best friend have been friends since first grade and now she became 8th grade cheerleader n i didnt make it and like she hangs out with all them now and she acts lieke a biotch and thinks she bette than me and like when they arnt around shes cool and were best frineds again but lately she jsut seems like im getting annoyign and she dont wanna hang out with me anymore were drifing apart and i wish we werent she has been here wiht me thorugh everything. sooo i dont really know wat to say bc im in the smae situation and sooo i guess just tell her how you feel and if she responds in a bad way then give her time off from you and see how things go. naybe it will be for the best. (maybe i should take my own advice) well i hope i helped a little good luck .
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Let the relationship take it's course.. I was always taught that your closest friends are the friends you can not to for months but when you do talk again, you start right where you laft off. And I totally believe it.
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Try making plans to see her more often. Invite her places and things like that. If that doesn't work, you have to realize that friends drift apart. Even if you try your hardest to keep this from happening, it will happen. It is part of life, and the best thing to do is not to live in the past and just move on.
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okay you really need to make lost of plans make ur on holiday (even though that sounds gay but it works) like make the holiday a best friends holiday buy a gift for her like just a ramdom gift go to the movies try to call her and talk to her about everything hope that works!!
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I know you feel. It's hard b/c your life seems like it's different. But as you get older, things change and you just have to expect that. It doesn't mean that you won't be friends anymore, but you still have two different lives. Just as long as you both come to an understanding that you still want to hang out and do things that close friends do when you can. It may not be intentional on either of you, things just happen. Boys, classes, churches or community stuff, family. Talk to her and just let her know that even though may not be as close, you still care about her. That's pretty much all that matters. Good luck and I hope I helped.
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tell her you feel as if you guys are growing apart. just talk to her and things might get back to normal
good luck babes <3
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Spend more time with her!
It'd be great to start a new hobby with her - besides the new thing youøre doing, you'll also meet new people to talk with your friend about.
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Talk to her.. get together and do something you guys like and talk about it.. aks her whats going on and ask her if she feels the same way about drawing apart too.. ♥ Dez
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Make a date and have her over! Stay up all night and just chat! about everything! Your whole life, memorys together when you were younger! trust me it helps! ^^! It'll help her to remember how good friends you are! Let her know that she can tust you! She'll may realize that she needs you!
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As you're realizing, life sets even the best of friends on separate paths. The best way to reverse this is to spend time together. Go to the movies, just hang out, anything to keep contact. Lack of contact is what works with time to pull relationships apart faster than you realize. Also, do little things to bring yall back together like a cute cheap "thought that counts" gift saying that you want to pull yalls relationship back together. Hope this helps and good luck :)
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