Q: 15/f

5'3, 100 lbs. yeah i lost abuot 25 pounds in maybe 4- 4 1/2 months. i went to the doctor for an eating disorder and i just dont eat enough so ive been told to eat more, i lost muscle though. i do obsess over food, weight, sorta. but my blood and everything was healthy so its like i have an eating disorder mind but a healthy body. i don't want to gain fat, but i need more muscle. i am in cheerleading and i can barely do what i was able to do before. i just don't have the stregnth. i want to be able to tumble and stuff but if i eat more (healthy foods not fat foods) i dont want to just gain fat. help! what can i do for muscle, i dont have weights really, or a gym, basically a trampoline and a sedimentary bike.

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Q: 16f
my mom caught me mastubating and watching porn and now i'm crying and i'm mad and i don't know what to do.... i feel awful... i cant stop crying i think i'm gonna cut myself... dammit i dont know what else to do!!! please help me i'm not some emo kid but im considering killing myself...

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Q: 15/f
what kinds of things should i put in the card to my bf?

-quotes
-lyrics
-something to actually SAY to him.. i really have no clue..
anything is appreciated.

Q: I made this thing for my boyfriend, and I wrote "I love you" on it, but I have room to put his name under that.
Do you think I should personalize it or just leave it as "I love you"?

Q: me and this one girl have been best friends forever.. and she got into a huge fight with my other best friend about 3 months ago.. now i hear shit from the both of them about the other ALL THE TIME and one of them is mad at me because they say that i hang out with the other one too much.. but i dont! i just try to make everyone happy!.. what should i do?

signed,
hopeless

Q: okay i've been talking to this guy and a couple of weeks ago he tried to do stuff w. me at a party well i've liked him for a while now and he talks to me occasionally like if im walking with a boy that is just a friend he will say something like " this boy dont want to go out with you" or he'll say whats goin on here ? and i like him soo much i cant get over him and all i think about is him like in school i cant do my work cus i think about him soo much and i dont ever learn anything.. what should i do should i try and talk to him?

Q: me and my bf made a bet about who could stay up the longest, and if he lost, he had to go some where with me, and if I lost, i have to kiss him. WE called it a tie, but we still have to go through with it. What should I do?

Q: hey 14/f there is this really hot junior at school, and i want to introduce myself to him, but the problem is i don't know how and i want to get to know him, but like how do i introduce myself i go to a private school and my brother is friends with him, and please dont say something like have you seen my brother to introduce myself, etc etc

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Q: ok there was this boy,
and he is my best friend's ex boyfriend.
but she still has feelings for him.
but he broke up with her.
but first time I saw him I had a crush on him too. I didnt tell my best friend, I couldent do that to her! but he had a football game and they won. my friend went to go to the rest room after the game. and I waited on the bentaches the the boy came up to me and sat by me. he said hi. I thought my friend would say it was ok just to have a confersation. then so we talked. the bathroom was like a couple minnets away. then right when my friend came she saw me and him holding hands!
she got mad but after a week she forgave me. that friday we were planning to go to a party. and he was there. soon my friend decided to leave but it was his house and he told me he had to show me somthing. I told him no beacuse of what happened. he talked me into it. then it was his room and you know what happened next yes we had sex.
but now at school I see him and he smiles. I hate keeping this from her.
I think he really likes me but so do i. but my friend will hate me!!!!! what do I do!!!!!!!??

Q: How do you get an ex boyfriend back?
And how can you ask him if he likes you, without really asking him?
thanks, i rate fair.

Q: Very recently, I found out one of my very best friends (a girl, I am a guy)got a boyfriend. This only happened recently, and I found out via myspace while I was bored and looking through other profiles. I came across hers and noticed all the comments about it, and I looked and checked and found out it was true. No one told me, I just happened across it (although, I am sure I would have found out by tomarrow)

I knew they were good friends, and when I read it, I was happy at first. But soon my happiness for her turned into a sick feeling in my stomach and I felt on the verge of a collapse. I felt sick and desperatly wanted to just go and die. To go away and maybe wake up and realize it wasn't true, to hope it wasn't true. And as reality settled into my mind, I felt the urge to do something I have almost never done, cry.

Every part of my mind says I should be happy for her, to be so glad she finally found someone decent. And I really want to, but my heart won't let me. She has always been there for me and has helped me through alot of bad times and vice versa, I have done the same for her. We've been friends for awile now, and I was always one she would come to for help, and I would do the same thing. I care for her as much as I humanly can.

I don't know why I feel this way, I shouldn't feel this way and yet I do, there is something in me that just won't accept it and is rejecting it completely.

Can anyone please tell me why I still feel like I do? Why a part of me just won't accept it. Won't let me be happy for her?

You have my most sincere thanks...
-Chooses to remain unknown

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Q: I've been sneezing and coughing alot this past week. And every morning when I wake up my nose is so stuffed up I can barely breathe. I don't feel like I have a cold or a flu or anything, but I want the sneezing/coughing/congestion to go away. Anymeds that will take care of these problems?

Q: Wat do I do?! My boyfriend just left for Dallas and I'm never gonna see him again. But i've thought it over and over again. I didn't really like him. It's all confusing.

Q: Hi advicenators :D

well, i am an icon maker on iconator (and if you've ever been there you know that there are millions of idiots who have nothing better to do then i/m you), so sosmeone imed me long enough for me to say "who is this", and then warned me. I was justs wondering, do warnings go away? How long does it take to go away? And also, i tried to warn HER, but it wouldnt let me; why is this?

Q: Dear Advicegiving people,

Yeah.. that subject was REALLY retarded. But yeah.. ok.. my LOVING boyfriend and I have been going out since July 8th & he's really sweet & all & I know he loves me because he tells me all the time & like.. I just DONT want that right now. I DONT want a serious relationship. And he's not the cutest thing ever, but he IS sweet & would give me the moon if I asked, like he's like the perfect boyfriend, but I dont WANT that. I want there to be rough times & I actually want him to disagree with me from time to time, but he treats me like a princess & thats just not what i want, but i dont want to be treated like crap either.. I just dont know right now. I want to break up with him, but i dont want to hurt him! HOW can I? Is it even possible? He's 15 by the way & so am I.

**Sorry it's soo long**

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