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Boyfriend Blues
Dear Advicegiving people,
Yeah.. that subject was REALLY retarded. But yeah.. ok.. my LOVING boyfriend and I have been going out since July 8th & he's really sweet & all & I know he loves me because he tells me all the time & like.. I just DONT want that right now. I DONT want a serious relationship. And he's not the cutest thing ever, but he IS sweet & would give me the moon if I asked, like he's like the perfect boyfriend, but I dont WANT that. I want there to be rough times & I actually want him to disagree with me from time to time, but he treats me like a princess & thats just not what i want, but i dont want to be treated like crap either.. I just dont know right now. I want to break up with him, but i dont want to hurt him! HOW can I? Is it even possible? He's 15 by the way & so am I.
**Sorry it's soo long**
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Oh man, a perfect boyfriend, you poor thing. Dump him and date someone who will smack you around from time to time, now there's thrill and excitement.
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It sounds to me that this guy isn't the perfect boyfriend for you, but he sounds like he would make a really really good friend, just because he sounds so kind and generous. So if you do end it with him, it's probably in your best interest to make a real effort to stay close. That way, if you realize that he really was right for you, then you have a chance at making it work again.
good luck
xo maddie
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Well let me tell you this strait off he may be sweet but remeber whats on every 15 year old boy mid. SEX!! And i would no im 14 turning 15. Just tell him how you feal that yuo dont want anything serious and then gently brake up with him. If he gets hburt at least he will no the truth. Not being truthfull with him is hurting him.
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THEiRS NO EASy WAy TO BREAK UP W/ SOMEONE...THEiR GONNA GET THEiR FEELiNGS HURT. BUT iF yOU TELL HiM WHAT yOU WANT..LiKE..TELL HiM, "i DON'T KNOW iF i WANT ALL OF THiS THAT yOUR OFFERiNG ME..yOUR SOO GOOD TO ME AND i KNOW THATS BETTER THEN BEiNG TREATED BADLy..BUT SOMETiMES iT WOULD BE NiCE TO JUST BE SiNGLE AND TALK TO EVERyONE..i KNOW THAT WE'VE BEEN GOiNG OUT FOR SOO LONG...AND iM REALLy SORRy..BUT i JUST CAN'T GO OUT W/ yOU RiGHT NOW."
iDN....iM NOT GOOD AT NiCE BREAKUPS!! LOL!! BUT MAKE SOMETHiNG UP THAT'S NiCE. iF yOUR MEAN HE'LL THiNK THAT yOU DONT LiKE HiM AT ALL AND DON'T WANT TO BE FRiENDS OR ANyTHiNG.
i HOPE EVERyTHiNG WORKS OUT!
xO _ aLi mIcHeLLe <3
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THATS WHAT HAPPEND TO ME TO.
just make up something really sad.
i said i cant have a boyfreind right now.
my grandma died.
and i need to hangout with my sister more.
TOTALLY NOT TRUE.
then i made him hate me.
and it was all good.
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I was in this same situation... what happened with me was that I dumped him but I went about things in really hurtful ways. Eventually, I realized that I did in fact want him but I just needed a break from it all. Unfortunately, I realized this too late and because I had been so hurtful to him he wouldn't take me back. Be very careful with this situation or you might make one of the worst mistakes ever. Break up with him, let him know sincerely how sorry you are and that more and more you've realized you're not mature enough to handle this kind of commitment with someone and you need some time to yourself to see what else is going on because you're young. If he wants to be friends with you afterwards, don't avoid him... he'll be a good friend to have around.
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Hahaha that's how all relationships start out. The guy treats the girl like a princess. But once you guys get used to each other, the guy gets lazy and will eventually tend to be stubbourn. thats the point where things get bumpy. you can't expect drops and loops at the beginning of a rollercoaster. it takes time to get the ride starting. But if that's the only reason why you want to break up with him (just because he's perfect) that's your loss of a good man. <3 yu can always talk to me
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Ah-o!
Well, I think you're going to hurt him no matter how you tell him. =/ I don't think I'd be able to do it if I were you, if he treated me like a princess. But, you know how you feel about him, so.. I think you should write him a letter, rather than tell him face to face. Because, writing everything down, you'll get everything you want out and you'll say everything. Just tell him why you want to, and then just explain your feelings. =] Good luck, lovely.
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If he treats you nice and makes you happy, stay with him. Sooner or later, the way he is..will change. I know it will. My relationship did. It's all nice and sweet but gets tougher after months. Just tell him not to treat you like a princess because you aren't comfortable with it. Or Tell him that you're not ready for a serious relationship.
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