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okay so my boyfriend && i have been going out for 9 months now... he's a great boyfriend .. he has his days but i guess my dad doesnt think he respects me *thats just my dad trying to be protective* but anyways he wants me to give him head.. ive told him that im not ready bc i am only 14 but like he keeps on trying to get me to do it- i know that if he respects me he will understand but a part of me wants to && feels its the right time... number 1 i dont know how.. && number 2 i dont know if i should. am i too young and what would you do.. no smart ass comments either please keep them to yourself but i rate high <333
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If he is forcing you to do anything, this guy is definetly someone you need to get away from. Believe it or not, your dad is right. If he DID respect you, he wouldn't put you in that awkward of a position. Fourteen is VERY YOUNG and if you're not ready, it shouldn't matter. DO it when you're ready and you'll be very glad.
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hey
i think you are to young and by the way you comfort with the toung ok so take my advice
your friend daddydiva
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think abou this. if you give in it is only going to open the door to other things. if you are not sure if you are ready for oral sex than your NOT ready for sex. if you give in Sex is right around the corner. after you give in just think how much pressure he's going to put on you to go all the way....
and another thing. You are too young, and something tells me your boyfriend is alot older. listen to your old man. God Bless
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In my opinion, you are too young. You did the right thing in saying you're not ready. If he still doesn't get the message, dump him because he's not worth your time. Plenty of other fish in the sea.
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I think you should wait until you are older. Don't do anything you aren't sure of. You may regret them later in life. If your bf does respect you and care about you, then he'll respect your choice. If he doesn't, then I guess he's not worth it. You shouldn't do anything someone else wants you to if you don't want to. I hope this helps you.
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Hey-
I don't think you should do it. If you are having any doubts, you shouldn't, and you should definitely feel 100% ready when you do go and do it. Also, your boyfriend SHOULD respect your desision, if he doesn't respect you for your desicion, he is a major ass, and you do not deserve him... (sorry if that sounded a little harsh)
good luck on making your desicion!
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by your question, i really don't think you should. make him wait...then we'll see if he REALLY respects you.
thats just my opinion tho... <3
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If I were you, I wouldn't do it. You are still very young and will end up regretting it later on in life, as many people do. If you are even asking, there is doubt in your mind. If there is doubt, you should fully think it out before doing anything. It usually means you aren't ready. He may seem like a "great boyfriend", but it sounds to me like he is pressuring you into doing shit that you don't want to. If you don't want to, don't be afraid to say no. If he continues trying to force you, you need to realize that he isn't exactly the best of boyfriends...
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Sometimes they CAN be great boyfriends, but also at that age where getting any type of sex is more important to them. Good for you for saying no and if he keeps pressuring you and/or ends the relationship over it then you will see his true colors. Don't give in to any type of pressure and don't have any type of sex until you know it is right for you!
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Any guy that respects a girl, doesnt keep pressuring her into doing something shes not comfortable doing, or doesnt want to do!
Just because he keeps asking, would be 1 good reason for you not to. Hes just thinking about himself!
The fact that youre not ready is a "no go" indication that you probably shouldnt. Dont feel like you have to just because you want to please him or not make him mad. Thats not a healthy relationship.
When your ready, its because YOU want to, not because some1 else wants you to!!
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It seems like he REALLY wants it, so he's trying to pressure you into it. If you have any doubt about it & you don't feel like you're ready, then just tell him that & don't do it. You don't need to be pressured into anything you don't wanna do. If he truly cares about you & loves you, he won't do that. =] Some girls DO give head at 14.. it's just a personal preference I guess. And most girls don't really know how to do it the first time, either. You learn from practice. So make sure you're fully ready without questions before you do it! ♥
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Holla chickiee
well personally some girls in my grade did it to oand there only 12 and they regret it. its totally up to you. but if your boyfriend is asking you to do this while you dont wanna then hwo great of a boyfriend is he. personally think of the consequences that will happen if you do give him head. your parents could find out and your life woudl be ruined.
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Hi hunny,
If he's pressuring you into doing it, I don't think you should be with him. You do that when your 100percent ready to. I really don't think he respects you either if he's pressuring you into doing something you're not wanting to do. You are too young also. I hope I helped! x3
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If there is even a little doubt in your mind that you should not do this(And there is, since your asking us for advice) then you shouldent do it. You'll regret it later on , trust me! Personally I think your way too young. It's all up to you, but if apart of you says no...then your not ready yet. Hope I helped! good luck.
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