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Looks
How much do you guys think look really matter? i think I have to be attracted to the person I'm dating so it's always been about 40% for me. BUT, sometimes if the person isn't the hottest but has a killer personality, it kind of pushes their hottness up, you know? So what do you guys think?
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It depends on the person that you ask, though. Some people rather have looks over personality. Then you get others who rather have personality over looks.
I think that if you like or love someone for who they really are, looks shouldn't matter at all. It's the personality the counts. For me, I rather be with someone who isn't that good looking and knows how to treat me, then be with a hot guy that is an asshole. ♥
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Yes,i deffently agree,but the reason you do notice someone is becuase of their physical features.Once you get to know them though,you dont really care about their looks,and i must agree if they have a good personality they tend to seem hotter!
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well, feelings for someone usually either start out because you were friends and grew to like him as more or because you are attracted to him... so starting out id say 50% but as you get to know him and really like him for who he is, it might not even matter at all to you anymore
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i totally agree with you. i mean look isnt all that important but if they have a great pesonality the yea they definitally are more attractive.
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I agree with you. but i like girls that are shorter than meor equal hight and that are thin.
looks arent too important for me.
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well i have a guy i like right? i must admit, he is not the hottest. he is cute and very adorable, but not incredibly hott like the other guys i am interested in. the reason i like him, is for his HEART. some of my friends even tell me "eww he is UGLY why do youu like that kid?" he is THE SWEETEST and THE NICEST/MOST POLITE boy EVER. that makes him, in my eyes, THE MOST ATTRACTIVE/THE HOTTEST BOY IN THE WORLD. what i am saying is, the inside really DOES make youu beautiful. everyone says it, but i mean it. it is true.<3
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as much as we say ''looks dont matter'' they do.
i mean. my guy doesnt have to be OMG gorgeous. but he's got to be cute.
but giving a killer personality and being a gorgeous person is a double hit.
i think looks for me is about .. 30 or 40 % .
so its not like you are being shallow. at all
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Well, personality is more important, but lets face it... the reason you notice someone is their physical features. Once you get to know someone though, you dont even really care what they look like. I definatly agree though, that if they have a really good personality, they tend to seem hotter!
&kissez,
Sarah
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Most people say personality comes first. Which is not true. Personality is more important, but without good looks, it's harder to notice someone. You can't know someone's personality unless you get to know them and people are naturally, physically attracted to good looking people. If you've seen the movie "Hitch" you'll know exactly what I'm talking about. Albert would never have been noticed by Allegra because he wasn't attractive, but they were perfect together. In my eyes, personality counts 100%. If you end up with a good looking guy, you'll likely break up with him if he has severe negative personality traits, or his personality just isn't compatible with yours no matter how attracted you are to him. So, basically, looks matter a lot, but mean nothing. That doesn't seem to make much sense, but if you really think about it, it does and I see it as the truth. I hope I was able to help and I didn't confuse you too much. If you haven't seen Hitch, you should because that explains my point much better than I can hahaha. Good luck!
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I'm a guy and can say that at least for me, looks didn't matter. When you really love a person, you would still love them for who they are, even if you didn't know what they looked like or anything. Yeah, I'm sure you were expecting to hear: its personality and not looks that matter. In certain ways that is true. If you fell in love with someone, and out of nowhere became blind, would you love them less? At that point, looks probably wouldn't even matter, right? Not saying you have to go blind or anything. I do not however feel that you have to be attracted to a person in the physical sence, as in how they look. Why? Well because looks can change, literally overnight. On the other hand, to change personality would take a lot more than that. Yes a killer personality sometimes does 'push their hottness up', but that doesn't mean that it has to, or that if it doesn't that something isn't right. Hope that helped.
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well i think you're right on track! Personality should be most of it. some guys are hot and nice, and some are not so hot but still really nice and everything! I think that finding a guy with just the right personality should mean the most...think of hottness as kinda a bonus!;)
xoxo helpachick
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ur mad,most likely
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Yeah I'm around 40 looks 60 personality myself.
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