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i love him. <3


Question Posted Monday November 14 2005, 4:42 pm

so i have this boyfriend..but we dont talk a lot. i love him SOOO muchh but i always get these really weird butterflies whenever i'm around him. he doesnt act like he likes me but everyone says he likes me A TON. i wanna like hug him, kiss him and hold hands with him but i dont think we're close enough..since we dont talk a lot..how can i get close to him and non shy??? and this might seem weird but..how could i get close enough to like hug and kiss him???

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MummuM answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 2:13 pm:
I think you should make the first move on him. There's no rule out there that girls shouldn't make the first move, so I say go for it.


Just kind of brush up against him, or slide your hand on his. He'll get the hint, believe me. Maybe he's just a little shy and thinks you don't want hugs or kisses. Show him that you do want them, and you'll start getting them more often. &hearts;

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frenchfries21 answered Tuesday November 15 2005, 4:10 pm:
start to get closer to him. just take his hand and hold it, maybe he'll start to catch on that you want him just as much as he wants you. hes probably just too shy, too scared to start holding you and hugging you and stuff. whenever you see him, go up and give him a hug. before you leave when your with him, give him a hug. if he doesnt catch on after that, i dont know what to tell you. he may just be a bit slow. maybe you could tell one of his friends that you know to tell him to give you a hug and hold your hand. if he wont hold hands and hug you yet, you may have to wait a bit longer for that kiss. good luck.
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ThugGirl041790 answered Tuesday November 15 2005, 2:55 pm:
If i was you i`d make the move myself.. even tho your not that close maybe try callin him and stuff more often.. When your around him alone just do you feel comfortable with..I`d start out slow with him tho like hold hands for a while..You don` want to freak this guy out and scare him lol.. And your not weird hun for wanting to get close to your boyfriend thats perfectly normal.. &hearts; Dez

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