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I've known this guy since I was three and we have been dating since I was 15. we are totally in love. but, we havent had sex yet and I'm 21!!! Is there something wrong with me?
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no, theres nothin wrong with that!
i am suprised niether of you would have done something about it, sex is something you should only do if you are ready, and if your not your not, dont worry about it.
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Absolutely not! You will NEVER regret waiting to have sex, but you will likely regret doing it too soon.
Congratulations on not doing it yet. So many people jump into it way too fast and then later wish they hadn't.
Amy : )
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No, not at all! If you and him aren't ready to have sex, then just don't do it. But if you want to.. then talk to him about it. But don't feel like you have to have sex, you dont.
<3
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No. Only do it when YOU are ready & when the GUY is ready.
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NO!! There is nothing wrong with you .. not at all!!
Just because you two are in love, doesn't mean you have to have sex to show how much you love each other.
He may not think you're ready and so he doesn't want to pressure you two into having sex because he doesn't want to pressure you (like I've said) and he doesn't want it to seem like he's using you. He just wants to wait until you feel like you're ready to make that BIG step.
So, if you're ready to have sex with him, try talking to him about it and telling how you feel and that you're ready to have sex with him.
I hope this works and if you need anything else, just leave a message in my inbox!!
♥ Kourtney
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No there isn't anything wrong with you. Some people wait to have sex until after they're married. Just think, when you both decide to do it, your gonna be happy that you've waited cause it'll just be unbelieveable to express your feelings for each other after the long wait. Lol. I hope I helped you.
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No, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Now I don't know what your plans are about doing it, but there is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 21. I promise. ♥
Jess
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No maybe ask him what he thinks about you and him having sex.. Maybe he has religious beliefs about that or maybe he just isn`t ready.. ♥ Dez
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Hiya,
There is absolutely nothing wrong with that at all!
Just because you have been together a long time and are in love doesn't mean you HAVE to have sex!
If you feel ready to take that next step in your relationship then discuss things with your partner and see what he thinks.
Don't feel pressurised to have sex just because everyone else is. I think you are really lucky, you are with a man you love who loves you - you obviously trust him so I'm sure that your first time together - whenever it is - will be something far more memorable and special than a lot of girls who come on this site!
Just take things in your own time! No one ever said "At the age of 21 you are no longer allowed ot be a virgin!" Ths goes for your guy too.
Do it when you are both comfortable to, don't do it because you feel you must!
Take Care!
Mel xxx
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I don't know. What's your reasoning for not having sex? Has HE wanted to have sex?
If you've not had intercourse simply because you don't want to, then there's nothing wrong with that.
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no.....
maybe you both rn't ready yet... sense if you shoudlve done it by now * 6 years is a long time 2 date sum1 * if you wanted 2.. and if you dont want 2 .... thats not a problem because its ur body.. and you are the 1 taking the major risk of getting pregnant.....and he prolly respects that ....
chase
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