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love sucks
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im 13/f and im gonna be going into 8th grade.
with not ever having a boyfriend, no first kiss no nothing!
and it sucks.
my love life better get better before i get to highschool
any ways i could maybe get a boyfriend or have boys get to like me more?!
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Hun, you are just 13 years old. You are still growing up. You have plenty of time for that kind of stuff when you are a couple years older. Some of your friends may have boyfriends and you're probably feeling like a third wheel, but rushing to grow up and having a boyfriend isn't that great. I think you should wait until you actually get to high school. You never know, things might happen during now until then. Just don't sweat it. I hope I helped you.
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Darling,
Boyfriends do mean something, soemthing important but only if you really care for them. It would be meaningless to have to one you didn't care for and you would hate it then your gonna think all relationship sucks and that just wouldn't be faor to the guys or yourself. When it is meant to happen it will. I know thats not what you wan to hear but its what you need to hear. And your first kiss is definitly not whatits cracked up to be. Guys like pure girls they always play stupid games to try and "tag the prude/virgin" Guys are slime so if your stepping into the guys world be prepared for heartbreak. On my page there was an answer with some things to get a guys attention if you would like. Just get ready to cry because guys suck and yet are so amazing. Good luck. Tell me what you decide.
Sincerly,
Vennessa.
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awww,hun.I'm going into 8th grade too.I've only had 1 boyfriend(he turned out to be a total jerk!).Having a boyfriend means nothing.The only way to get a boyfriend is to be yourself.Flirt a little.Most girls don't even get a boyfriend till' highschool.It's completely normal.Just try to focus on having a great time in 8th grade,and less on having a boyfriend.
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Its okay if you have never had a boyfriend or a first kiss before! I know some people that never had a boyfriend and they are 18! I'm sure you've heard someone say like "you just have to put yourself out there" which means just make yourself noticable. I'm sure there have been guys that like you..but you made it seem like you didn't like them back. And i know people say this a lot but def. be yourself and be outgoing. I have a great sight to look at.
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You are still so so young for that. Some people may feel that they need to be in on all that type of stuff and have a boyfriend at that age, just to show off. Myself, i never had a real boyfriend till i was 16 years old, like i had one of those guys when i was 15 that it's like o ya i'm his girlfriend but we never did anything or went out literally anyways. Same with all my friends. So what i'm getting at is that 13 is really young right now. you'll probably see a difference once you get into high school! There's also no way to make a guy fall for you. It will come naturally. Guys will like you for just being you!
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Your not going to want to hear this but im telling you from personal expierence,
be different, dont try and be like everyone else whos had a b/f and kissed and some even sex already because they will not end up happy 75% of the time. Boys are basically into sex and boys will do anything to get you to do it with them, dont rush to grow up or have a "love life" your only 13! I let a boy ruin my life for 3 1/2 years b/c i wanted a "love life" i ended up in jail and i ended up loing everything and havin to start over...dont worry about guys right now, focus on school and getting good grades so you can make it through college
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you cant really make a guy fall in love with you. i didnt get my boyfriend till i was 14 and know im fifteen. yeah its hard. everyone would talk about their boyfriends and evrything about them when i was 13 and 14. i was so sad becuase i never thought i would get one but then i did. i think God will give you one when your ready. and after i got so sad i just forgot about trying to get him and whatever to like me. i just forgot about the thing and just had fun. it was like who cares. ill get one when i get one. you have to stop trying so hard and just go with life. God will figure out the time to give you one and thats that. i think every person in the world finds a boyfriend or girlfriend so dont woryy about it. your going into 8th grade and who cares if you dont have one in highschool. i still have 2 friends who havent had a boyfriend yet. but that never gets them down. you have 8th grade and 9th grade and all the grades after that. who knows. maybe there is some romance instore for you this year but dont get so mad over yourself. heres a tip if you try to get a boyfriend. be yourself. guys dont want you to try and be someone else. they want to see the real you. im not saying that you arent but its just a tip. just dont get depressed and sad all over it. i know because that is hoe EXACTLY how i was but i had my sister for help and you can talk to someone about it too. ive talked to my mom about it before and it wasnt embarrising. just wait and dont try so hard. well I hope i answered your question as best as i could. if you have anyother questions feel free to ask me one. email me if you want at hsmfan15xo@yahoo.com. Good Luck!!
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Well try to talk to lot of guys be nice, be your self, and see where it goes from there. But I wouldn`t really rush your just gonna get heart broken that`s how guys are at that age.
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ok so i was your age once and truth is, relationships in 8th grade are not the real thing. i was exactly like you and yes i had bfs in the 8th grade but by high school, i looked back at them and laughed at them like wow, i was really dumb. don't try to have a bf just to say you have. just be yourself and the right guy will come around. chasing boys is a waste of time, trust me. be fun, be in a good mood and have fun. don't change to get attention. <3
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Hey, don't feel down on yourself, I didn't get my first kiss until january of this year. I was 13 too. But you shouldn't feel bad because you've never had a real b/f or a kiss. Wait for someone who will make it special. If you are worried about not having a bf just go after guys with a better personality, then looks. Be friends with them first, and dont be afraid to be yourself. Guys hate girls that are shy and quiet. But they also can't stand girls that are ALWAYS loud and annoying. So, just be in the between. Hopefully it works.
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Put yourself out there! :) flirt a little! Dont be shy and be yourself girl! Once you find the right guy, it will all work out, its actually a good thing that you havent had your first kiss yet, because many girls have their first kiss when they are too young and arent even with the right guy! Now your first kiss will be with a guy that you really care about.
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Hey,
I understand that your older now, and moving to a new stage and stuff, but that still doesn't mean that you have to have a boyfriend, you know why? because that won't make you any better or more popular.And if you go to highschool and sit on a chair and try to attract boys and wait to have a boyfriend, then you will never get one.
So, i have a suggestion or a way on how you may get one, i am advising you to go into that school and act completely natural, with your great personality and the sweet and friendly way you treat people with , and then a coupl days later, you will find a boy and mabye two coming up to you and asking you out. And i am suggesting this way, because boys don't like fake girls( and don't get me wrong or anything, i don't mean that you are one)but i am just trying to tell you not to go up to a guy and act super hot and sweet to make him your boyfriend, but just act natural and be yourself and act honest in everything you do. And i promise that you will get a boyfriend ,because you deserve to have one.Goodluck, and try to consider what i said, and if you need anything else, please be free to contact me.
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Hi, if you want a boyfriend then you've got to make friends with guys or join a group. Just go up and start a conversation with a guy. You can use different flirting techniques like:
Stroke your hair back
Smile alot
Eye contact
smile and give a wink with your eye
(that should let him know your interested)
To get a boyfriend you have to create the opportunity e.g. ask him out, go up and talk, flirt. You also have to be sure what kind of guy you would like to hang out with, this is why going on a date first is important because you can have a chat and get to know each other a wee bit. Don't rush into anything though, because your still quite young and have plenty of teenage years in front of you. Daniel.
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Just be yourself that is all you can do. Dont be something youre not just to get a guys attention.
Maybe put a little bit of makeup on.
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