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Lost Friendship
I have these friends of mine. They were my best friends. Even though we go to different schools, I still spend lots of time with them. I really loved them, no matter what happened between us. Some people said that I was so stupid that I trusted them so bad that I have never thought bad things about them.
Few days ago, one of my friends came to me and told me that all of my friends were talking bad things about me. I did not trust him, of course, cause I believed that my friends would not do such a thing to me.
Then, when I checked my e-mail, I found a message for me. It was all bad things about me. It was from my friends. I was so shock that I spend my time crying with my boyfriend. My boyfriend, which was my closest best friend too, told me that even though my friends hated me, he would stay with me. But actually, his words did not calm me down. I still worried about my friends. I did not hate them, and I would never do, but I could not forget what they said about me. Now, I'm avoided and hated by my friends. And they avoid my boyfriend in their school too!! I really don't know what to do... Please help me!!!
-brokenheart girl-
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move on... they are not worth your tears.. no traitors are worth your tears.. make new friends.. show them that you dont need them... show them that you cant be put down by them.. prove it to them that you are strong.. and show them that they are not the only friends you have.. hope i helped..
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don't worry this happened to me before (a lil diffrent but oh well) look what they did was low ok like some of the people said make them think that didn't make you sad and ask them why they did that cuase rumors (Those things must die) maybe did that like somone told them that you said blah but if they say that that they don't like you remind them everything you have done for them and leave maybe 1 of them will get a brain and find out what they did was wrong
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Ask them why they did that to you..Maybe they just think that you don't care about them anymore because you have new friends or sumthing..But then tell them about your condition..maybe they will understand you..Hope i helped!
-ViTaChaN-
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wow i feel bad for you. see i dont think you can call those people you "friends" if they talk bs behind your back. you dont hate them you just dislike them at the time and you have a good reason to. well there is no reason why your bf should leave you.if they are avoding your boyfriend just let me them. dont show weakness and find some other true friends.
i hope i helped a lil.
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This kind of stuff is all apart of growing up..making friends and losing them. Ive noticed especially in middle school there is this kind of stuff.By the time you get into high school ..like 9th and 10th grade..you see who your true friends are. These girls are really shallow and its for the best that you found out how shallow they are now..this way you can leave them behind and find true friends.
What you do is this:
- simply leave your friends behind because they are most definately bio&tches
-get out there and meet new people and make new friends! :)
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Oh my gosh.. your friends are @#$(&$@! Thats just really ignorant of them. They were never your really good friends to begin with. You can NEVER trust anyone but your family. You can never trust your friends,who ever no matter how close you are. && I learned that the hard way. But anyways, I know its really hard for you and you really cant forget about it but you need to try. They are making a mistake tho. Send them a e-mail back and just say... "I`m not going to say anything like this to you guys. I thought you were my friends but I guess I was wrong about that. What did I ever do to you to make you say all of these things?" You all will get over it sooner or later. These things happen then they will end up saying sorry and they didnt mean it. Good luck hon!
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You should try to talk to them and ask them what started all of this. If you guys were fine and then all of a sudden they started talking trash about you then something must of triggered it. Try talking to them and explain how your feeling maybe its a missunderstanding.
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Awww! I'm sorry ]= If your "friends" are talking about you this way, then they REALLY aren't your friends. Find some who treat you better, because that's what you deserve. Just remember, eventually one of them [or all of them] are going to come running back, and you won't need them anymore. I hope you feel better!
<b>♥</b> Melissa
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Real friends wouldn't say bad things behinde your back. Friends would either,
1) not say anything bad about you or...
2) say these "mean" things to your face.
i don't think you should start saying anything bad about them. I think you should call them up and ask them why they would say these things and tell them that friends shouldn't do that to eachother.
~I hope it works out for the best!~
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Awww....that is so low of them! What I would do is forget about them! Don't let it bother you! Send an email back that says: you can say anything you want about me, but you know what?! I'm not going to feel bad and I'm not going to say bad things back because I don't want to stoop down to your low as dirt level! And I'm not sure about your boyfriend....that was kind of harsh what he said....My advice: Dump your old friends and start over again. I had to do that a couple times before i realized who my true friends were.
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