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i feel like a loser


Question Posted Thursday August 4 2005, 8:47 am

Today i was happy and ready to go to cheer camp. When i got there everyone was wearing the same color shorts eccept for me, i guess it was required. My mom drove me back home to change but i didnt have that color becasue someone borrowed them and never gave them back. My mom left to work and now im sitting home thinking of waether not i should of gone back. Its a three day thing, yesterday i went but i wore the wrong color and today im not going. they already made up the routine and gave me a spot but now they are gonna change it and i dont feel liek putting up with everyone askign me where i was and i just know that they are going to tlak behind my back.Everyone went besides me and liek 2 peple have areason bc they are on vacation. What do i tell people?

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SoNotLegal answered Sunday August 7 2005, 12:39 am:
Just tell them that you made a mistake and grabbed the wrong color shorts. Everyone makes mistakes!
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TennisGirl2213 answered Saturday August 6 2005, 7:47 am:
Tell them it's not their buisness, which it's not, you don't have to tell them anything you don't have to.

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Real4Christ07 answered Thursday August 4 2005, 12:52 pm:
Well, if you can I think you should go today. Who cares if you're wearing the wrong colored shorts???? Is it that big of a deal? How much do you really enjoy cheerleading? Let that be the deciding factor. And if you can't go and people ask where you were. I don't know what to tell you. sorry.But don't lie.
-God Bless
Jesus IS The Way

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BlondeBabe0282 answered Thursday August 4 2005, 12:21 pm:
Just say I accidently forgot something at home but then I didn't have time to come back to camp.
If these girls are really your friends anyway they won't make fun of you.

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xRoOxiSxBlOnDex answered Thursday August 4 2005, 11:10 am:
I've been a cheerleader my whole life and I'm telling you, not going just because you don't have the right color shorts is NOT a smart thing to do. They will start thinking that you aren't a dependable person and won't give you important parts in routines, because they might think you'll bail on them again. Just get some shorts and go to practice. Nobody really cares what shorts you have, because by you not being there they might have to change a lot of the routine. Just go! If you really need something to tell them, just say that you weren't feeling well.
<b>&hearts;</b> Melissa

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krh028 answered Thursday August 4 2005, 10:42 am:
dont tell them anything...if they ask just laugh and say i forgot to wear the color or i didnt know i was supposed to. make it a joke and dont be ashamed of yourself.
<3 much
Kristen

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FCeLciA answered Thursday August 4 2005, 9:05 am:
It seems like the 'color shorts' really brings you down. Don't let that happen... That's just only color shorts, right?? It may change few things, but it won't change your life, right?? You should just relax and enjoy whatever things going on. I think that's the only problem that ruins your days.

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twistedsister17 answered Thursday August 4 2005, 9:01 am:
Shorts?! This whole thing is about the color of shorts? Lets think about this logically: Are you a better person because you wear a certain color of shorts? No. You went to cheer camp to have fun and learn some new things. You shouldn't let a pair of shorts stand in your way. Just tell the other girls that cheer camp is NOT about the color of your shorts but the color of your Heart. Have some confidence, girl.

Have fun! <3

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