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im lost without him
ok so theres this guy named kevin who i've liked since 2 years ago. We dated for like 6 months and i honestly have to say i loved him. I miss him alot, its so hard to realize were actually over. He says he misses me too, and talks about driving down to see me. but it never happens. My birthday i didnt even have a party because he was suposed to come and take me out. And he didnt even show up. He called the next day and told me he couldnt that he forgot. It was really upseting. He does live like 2 hours away or so, and i know it really shouldnt be worth it, but for you girls who know what love is actually like , its hard to try n "forget about him". I used to have so many problems at home and he was the one i could talk to. At one point he was the only person i trusted with anything. He knew it all. and now its diffrent, but i havent told him yet how much i still love him and care about him. I just need some help on how to tell him. I wanna do it while i have the chance, so if someone could just give me an idea on how to tell him, if i even should tell him or what they think.
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thanks,
-me.
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You know, he must not feel the same if he could make plans with you and then just "forget". I don't know. I suppose you can tell him how you feel and see if it changes anything. I just think you should be prepared. One thing is sure...you'd know how he feels once and for all. :)
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ok this is going to be hard either way. i mean if he loved you too, it will be hard because things he did that isnt good.
and if he didnt like you then it will be devastating for you... im sorry its a no win situation...but even if its that situation, you should try to make the best of it
first, tell him all the things you wanted to say to him... good things, anger, love and all that
and see how he reacts, and if he appologize then look him in to the eyes, and see if its one of those sincere ones,,, you will know if you listen to your heart.
and if he says he dont like you or anything like that, then tell him ok. you understand, and you have to try to move on, i mean if you are under the blankets all the time, the perfect guy wont be able to find you
so go out to the world and be your self and see what the world can bring to you and if you need someone to talk to, i will be here to listen and all that so be your self and listen to your heart!
=) hope this helped
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You should call him and invite him to a dinner at your house, and make it be very romantic and have a theme going so he can get an idea of what you are trying to say, then after dinner if he didn't get the "i still love you" thing, then tell him, but make sure he is listening, a lot of guys just doze of during romantic dinners. If that doesn't work then i'm sorry, you can IM me and i'll try to help you again.
-allison
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This is exactly what's happening to me right now so i feel your pain. Really you just need to ask him straight out what's going on between you two. But you defiantly need to ask him, because if you don't then you will be always asking yourself what if? And that's not a good feeling. Goodluck Shuree :)
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