I am 14 and a female, ok, see I used to be friends with this girl Cydney in 8th grade. In the winter I invited here to a retreat for our youth group trip and she seemed fine about it, then when we get in the car she starts hanging out with this snotty girl lisa who told everybody i like girls which is NOT TRUE. And then we were on the subject about what things we liked to about each other and I asked her what she like about me and she goes well there alot of things i dont like about you. I cant help it if Im shy. My mom was shy when she was my age and still had decent friends. Thats not all we started giving her rides to school and she talks to me around my mom, but she doesnt talk to me at school. I havent done anything to her. She turned gothic too. I dont know what to do. Can any one relate.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? squirrell answered Saturday June 18 2005, 9:04 am: Well I may only be 13 but this happens to me all the time. Talk to her you may find she just decided to change to fit in with a different crowd. Or this Lisa girl could be holding something over her head in other words Lisa might have threatened her with something if she didn't start hanging out with her. Would love feedback. Oh one more thing Lisa could have told your friend you said something behind her back and maybe she belived it. Yes it's stupid but that one is a classic friendship ender. [ squirrell's advice column | Ask squirrell A Question ]
poa answered Saturday June 18 2005, 3:51 am: Give her a skinny puppy album and some razor blades - then never speak to her again. [ poa's advice column | Ask poa A Question ]
MaNdASzHElP247 answered Saturday June 18 2005, 3:24 am: I can. When i was in jr high my best friend used to always act like that. And now were not even friends because i cant stand her for the choices she makes. Anyway..
i think that you should honestly not be her friend. Shes bringing you down and making you look bad. That other girl is telling people you like girls?? thats messed up and i wouldnt tolerate it. You should tell your gothic friend that you dont wanna be friends and that she can bum a ride of that lisa chick. And if she gets all pissy then just tell her how you feel about it. Your better off without her because true friends dont blow you off just like that. At least they arent suposed to. Now a days girls are SOOO mean to eachother its sad. Good luck hunny<3 [ MaNdASzHElP247's advice column | Ask MaNdASzHElP247 A Question ]
prettyNpink answered Saturday June 18 2005, 3:13 am: some girls can be so two faced i HAD i friend like that. what i did was ditched her.if so wants to be two faced then let her be two faced wit her NEW friends. she can be a bitch wit them.Excuse my french.so just let her find a ride to school let her donkey ass ride the bus!excuse me. [ prettyNpink's advice column | Ask prettyNpink A Question ]
Xsweetpeax26 answered Saturday June 18 2005, 1:47 am: this girl is a complete and total bitch. stop hanging around with her. you deserve better friendship than that. find friends who respect you and want your company. youll be alot happier that wway. dnt give her a ride to school anymore, tell her that youre NOT her chauffer, and youre not there to be used. basically shes using you for rides, good hang outs and whatever else you give her. and the lking girls thing? thats immature and she needs a life. find a new friend and tell her to lick your nuts (im aware that you dont have any, i just say it all the time. lol) [ Xsweetpeax26's advice column | Ask Xsweetpeax26 A Question ]
BrOk3nHeArt3DbEcUzOfU answered Saturday June 18 2005, 12:02 am: hey im sry bout all this but it isnt anything you can change ....she has new friends now..maybe you should hang out with your new friend instead of worrying if your guys are kool n with you givin her rides to skool tell her tht if your not guna b frindz outside of tha car then she needs to fynd her own ride because ther rilly is no point of giving sum 1 who aint you friend a ride..n i kno it myt sound harsh...n ev1 else is guna say talk to them but if its not worth workin out because its already bad then just move on therr are a bunch of other people who would make better friends than some one you used to talk to... i m sry bout all tht n i hope i helpd ..if you have ne otha ?z feel free ta ask me!
~good luck~
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