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okay, so i'm really confused because there's this guy i really like. but he has a girlfriend. see most people would just be like oh, he's taken whatever, ya know? but the thing is, me and him have been friends for a long, long time so we talk even more than him and his girlfriend talk. so that wouldn't be a problem in most cases but the confusing thing is, he knows that i like him and he says that he likes me back and hes ALWAYS flirting w. me like crazy. so then when i asked him about if he liked me why was he dating this other girl, he said that he liked her too but that when they broke up that "you never know what might happen" so at first i was like okay ill just wait but now they've been goign out for a long time and it doesnt seem as though they are gonna break up anytime soon. but he still continues to flirt and i flirt back but now im beginning to feel like his girlfriend, Kristen knows that somethings going on. should i tell her? and should i continue to wait for him? please help!
<3 Jen
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OK you gotta tell him he better make up his mind. if his going to lead you on like that, then he better do it straight. i mean i know his not a player type and all, because its true that sometimes that person can like 2 people at a time and i totally repect your perspective and his and his girl friend's but this triangle has gone too far girl!
if he keeps leading you on and dont do anything after wards it will end up hard...
1. his girlfriend wants revenge on both of you
2. your friendship with him breaks up
3. you three will loathe eachother
i mean you dont want that do you?
so sit with him one day, and tell him all the things you want to say to him.
how hard its for you to watch him with girlfriend but him still flirting with you.
set the record correct so if his going to be in that direction, then you gotta just be friend and find some new guy who's totally in to you and only you
because that is part of self repect.
so keep your head high and hope things work out for you and remember trust your heart and speack from heart!
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flirting is the fun of it but you cant be :the other woman: move on for now and see what happens between the explain to him how you feel and see what he says
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First tell his girlfriend don't say it infront of anyone else though and don't tell him your going to tell her ask her not to release your name then find another guy. He sounds like he's playin' ya so no don't wait who knows how many other girls are having the same problem.
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I think you need to tell her and then you need to find a real guy thats not gonna play you like a fool. Girl don't put up with that shit he's a player if he is telling one girl he's likes her then he has got a girlfriend. That's a bunch of bull cause you can tell that's just wrong and why would you want to be with a guy that if you two got together he could do the same thing to you. I hope I helped! Shuree
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It's really up to him to make the decision. He shouldn't take his time and keep people waiting for him. If he really likes you then he should have choosen you over his girlfriend right there on the spot. I don't think you should wait up for him. If he's in a relationship and he's flirting with someone else, I think he'd do the same to you if you were both going out. It's never really good to get too attached to a flirt. I don't think it's your problem to confront Kristen, it's his girlfriend and he should deal that her himself.
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