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annoying stealing son of a bitch!!
i have a best friend that keeps liking the same guy i do!!! and then when i go out with that guy and i really really like he she takes him from me!!! i was going out with this guy for almost 3 monthes going on 4 and she said to him that she thinks its a great idea for them to go out and instead of me and him going out soo he thought about it and he said oh what the hell and did!!! soo they only went out behind my bak for 3 weeks at least or i hope thats as long as they went out!! well my parents and her parents are like best friends and she always has to come over and i dont want her to at all!!! but there is nothing i can do i told my parents and their like well just put up with her just tonight over and over again!!! ok then she lies to much and gets me in trouble!!! then she thinks she is sooo much better than me in vball and she didnt even make it last year!!! so im just soo god damn tired of her!!! she will never leave me alone i tell her i hate her but she starts buying me things to suck up to me for what ever she has done!! which makes me even more angry!!! waht am i suppose to do?! i mean i have tryed everything but its not working!!!
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hey...well i have the same kind of frined...so what i did was just ingore her...i told her to leave me alone stop talking to me..an when she went to suck up n buy me shit i didnt take it an just gave it back..an with the guy thing..just tell her not to bother with you...also just curse her the fuck out an tell her to shut up an get a life of your own..an tell her the truth of everything .
hope i helped
tasha
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your gay you say she's your best friend but it seens like you hate her confront her then fight her then tell her back the fuck of when she on the floor begging her for you to stop beating her ass.
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First of all... she is not your best friend. When you love someone you don't hurt them in any way. And she keeps hurting you over and over. I think you should try talking to your parents again. If that doesn't work.. don't accept her gifts. Don't answer her calls. Your parents might be friends but that doesn't mean that you and her are compatible. I wish there was an easy answer. It makes it hard if your parents are friends. I had a cousin that I was made to hang out with. She did things and I got the blame. Eventually we grow up and went our separate ways. She is on her 3rd husband and 3 babies with different dads. Be the better person and stand up for yourself when she is lying. Liers don't like to be confronted. When she is lying and getting you in trouble confront her in front of your parents and hers. Don't let her know ahead of time what you are going to do. It's harder to change lies on the spot. Don't cover for her be honest. It might be hard at first but eventually she will get the hint.
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Tell your parents what you really feel (again) and that it really bothers you a lot. If they have any concern for you, they will listen to you.
If not, go directly to your friend and tell her the truth. With this post thing, I sopposed you really don't want to be her friend, nor do you care about what she feels...
Actually, I have a better idea. Sit both her, your parents, and her parents in a room and tell them what you feel.
Why did I add her parents, because if you start bitching to her, she might go to HER parents and make up even more lies/crap about you.
Don't take "no" for an answer, and just let it all out in the open. You deserve to say what's on your mind and to tell others, that they're basically pissing you off. :)
GOODLUCK LOVELY!
Let me know how everything works out! :)
If you have any more questions or need follow up advice, please by all means feel free to ask me.
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