Question Posted Thursday November 11 2004, 6:15 pm
Okay well like guy..and he has a girlfriend..but he flirts with me..but when hes with his friends..hell like barely talk to me..or when hes with his girlfriend..he like say hey but then he just ignore me! i mean EVERYONE in my class that knos that i like him..thinks he likes me..but i dont think so..because sometimes he can be mean..but other times he so sweet. i could tell him anything..and i really like him..but i dont think he likes me! do you kno why flirts with me when its just us..and then when hes with his friends hell ignore me?! thanks!
xSammieXlubsXux answered Thursday November 11 2004, 10:18 pm: If you feel this way then why do u keep going after him.. i think that he needs some girl attention and i dont exactly think that he is getting enough of it from his girlfriend so he goes to you becuz that is what you give to him. I think that the only way that his girlfriend pays attention to him is if they are in public with eachother. I think that, that is wrong, you know...the way he is treating you. He must like you he just prolly doesnt know how to let go of his girlfriend. BUT if this is how he is gonna be then i think that you should just let go..or he should just let go of you. move on...there are a lot of guys out there.
love ya ~sammie~ [ xSammieXlubsXux's advice column | Ask xSammieXlubsXux A Question ]
msListenLady answered Thursday November 11 2004, 8:50 pm: Probably because he has a girlfriend. He can't flirt with you in public because if his girlfriend found out, ooooo, there'd be BIG trouble. That is why he is so sweet in private. :) [ msListenLady's advice column | Ask msListenLady A Question ]
xOcRaZiCrAcKaox answered Thursday November 11 2004, 8:37 pm: I think he likes you but doesnt want anyone else to know. I mean, if hes going to be like this, then why would you want him anyway? Wait..im puttin thoughts in your head. Well, i think you should make an attempt to talk to him more. [ xOcRaZiCrAcKaox's advice column | Ask xOcRaZiCrAcKaox A Question ]
PrEtTyKiTtY0428 answered Thursday November 11 2004, 7:45 pm: Alot of guys act like assholes in front of their friends. They can be really mean in front of their friends, but when their alone with you they just tend to be alot nicer. It's something that all guys do. You shouldn't worry about anything. You should tell him that it bothers you he acts nice around you when you guys are alone, but mean when he is with his friends. If you talked to him, then maybe he would be nicer in front of his friends also. Well, I hope I helped ya out hun! If you have anymore questions just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try to answer them the best I can. Bye! [ PrEtTyKiTtY0428's advice column | Ask PrEtTyKiTtY0428 A Question ]
KiLLeROnDaCourT answered Thursday November 11 2004, 7:07 pm: he flirts w/u when no 1 else is around 4 one reason: he doesnt wanna get caught. he probably likes u but cant flirt in public bcuz he doesnt wanna break up w/his chic. dont worry bout it. dont be suprised if when they break up, he flirts w/u a whole lot more. hope i helped ya! [ KiLLeROnDaCourT's advice column | Ask KiLLeROnDaCourT A Question ]
justluvly answered Thursday November 11 2004, 7:02 pm: Hey .KMUL.
There's a guy I know who also has a girlfriend but we flirt constantly (touching and saying) and I know he's always there for me. I love him to death and I would go out with him but that girl is in the way. My solution for you is to just get your flirt on but dont take what he does too seriously, because if you do, you could end up getting hurt. I know exactly how you feel... [ justluvly's advice column | Ask justluvly A Question ]
PuReLuVeR143 answered Thursday November 11 2004, 6:26 pm: OMG GIRL I had that SAME PROBLEM RECENTLY!! You REALLY need to try and get over him. What he's doing right now is using you as a kinda toy. When he isnt with his friends or his girlfriend, he uses you to have some fun with. BUt when he is occupied [with his gf or friends], he doesn't need you to be there or he may not even care if you are there because he is already having fun, etc with the people he really cares about. Im really sorry I dont mean to sound rude..I mean I wish someone told me these things when i was in that situation. The way to get over him is to slowly not flirt with him nemore. If he flirts with you, act as if you dont really know him that well and like kinda laugh at what he says but DONT say nething back to him..if he pushes in flirtasiously, DONT push him back, etc..try to avoid him..
love kristin [ PuReLuVeR143's advice column | Ask PuReLuVeR143 A Question ]
Sherry answered Thursday November 11 2004, 6:20 pm: Yep, he likes you..but He doesnt want his friends knowing he likes you. Because his friends might tell his gf. So he might like you but not enough to where he'll break up with his gf for you. Just wait till they break up (and they eventually will) and see what happens. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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