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hey i have 2 questions for you the first one is well ive been going out with this boy for about a year and 2 months and i really love him and everything but everyone always tells me i deserve so much better than him and im too good for him but thats not what i think hes kinda my everything you would say and well i dont know what to do should i listen to people or not? and second is one of my bestfriends used to live with her mom and then moved to my city and just yesterday moved back with her mom because of family problems over here and every one is really broken up about it and i was thinking of throwing a party for her to go to so we could all hang out one last time what do you think i should do for the party like what kind of theme thanx i rate high!
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For your first question, if this guy:
1.Makes YOU happy
2. Has never tried to hurt you, in a physical, or emotinal way on purpose
3. Makes YOU feel good about yourself, and never puts you down
4. Is respectful to you
5. respects your friends if they are nice
6. Makes an effort to let you know he loves you
7. AND never hits on other girls or flirts with them in front of you on purpose
Then this guy is a big keeper, and what everyone says to you about him is very questionable. Now, I am pretty sure that there may have been an inccident with him cheating on you, or doing something mean to you or bad, that you could be leaving out, because, there has to be a rason why people say so, and if its because they are bitter and thinks hes ugly, then you are about the only girl who has respect out of those people. So if you said yes to about 6 or 5 of those questions, then don't listen to anyone, the ones you SHOULD have checked are:
2, 3, 4, and 7. But MOSTLY 2.
For your second question, I suggest maybe doing something wild and crazy, whether it be getting in swimming suits and jumping in mud puddles on a hot day, or playing spin the bottle/truth or dare kind of wild. And then after, everyone in a circle, and talk about memories, make a great big album with lots of pictures of all of you and give it to her to keep forever, maybe get one of those huge cards and have a poem saying how much you will miss her.
*A good poem site is here:
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-TheTeenGirl
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Do what you think is best for you and him. If you love him as much as you say you do, you will stay with him and see what happens between you.
For the party theme, you should do something that she really likes. That may cheer her up.
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First question: Your friends seem a little jealous because you have a boyfriend and maybe some of them don't. If they are your true friends, they should be happy for you. They shouldn't be telling you that your so much better then this guy. If he's treating you like a princess, then there's no need for them calling this guy down. It would be totally different if he was being an asshole to you, but I guess he's not. Tell your friends that it hurts your feelings when they say things about your boyfriend and that he really is a nice guy. If they are true friends, they will stop with the comments and understand where you are coming from. For the second question: A party sounds like a great idea for your friend. Maybe you could have a Hawaii theme. Those are always fun. You could put up a bunch of colorful ballons and streamers up. Get some cups and some lays. Have a cake. Some good music that has a good beat. You could do some limboing and playing some games. Wear flowers in your hair, etc.
♥ Krissy
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well, i dont know what to tell you about the party, sorry. but i can help you out with the boyfriend vs. friends. same things happening to me. if you really love him and want to be with him, then be with him. dont let anyone tell you what to do. trust me, i know exactly what you're going through. and i really love my boyfriends and if my friends wont accept that and be happy for me, then i guess they're not really good friends. or they a bit over protective. if you love him like you say you do, stay with him. you have no reason not to be with him other than people tell you you shouldnt. hope i helped any. good luck.
~Kare
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