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Question Posted Monday March 7 2005, 1:35 pm

ok look i kno this chick and we've been goin out for about 9 months and she wants to do stuff really bad and dont get me wrong i do too but i am not done with puberity and i am shy about it i dont kno what to do what do i do? what do i say? should i just go for it and see what happens or should i just wait?

P.S. we love each other VERY much!! :)

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worstadv answered Saturday April 2 2005, 8:56 pm:
well look here youngn if you know like me sometimes sex is not the best things in a relationship so if that is what you want to do than do it dont be force because she wants to do things that you are shy to do

alright so take advice

i love my girl very much too

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itsme13 answered Thursday March 31 2005, 8:33 pm:
you u have a little dick and you dont want her to know I laugh at you cuz your small

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MsAnswers answered Saturday March 19 2005, 5:38 pm:
if loves the case then she shouldnt care

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Eeyore733 answered Friday March 11 2005, 11:38 am:
Just tell her you not really ready tell her maybe in a few weeks or something she will understand if she really loves you

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xOxPlAyGuRlxOx answered Thursday March 10 2005, 11:04 pm:
If you're asking people if you're ready or not then you most likely arent. I'd wait a little bit, especially if youre not done with puberty yet. You may be too young. Goodluck with things hun. xOx

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Kels answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 6:35 pm:
she should just listen to you, i mean, if you love eachother, then you should be able to talk to her!!! and you dont have to do things to stay together!!!


Always there!
--Kels--

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karenR answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 12:37 am:
You should wait until it's right for you.Girls tend to mature faster than boys so your normal and all that.Just talk to her and let her know how you feel.If she isn't willing to stick it out with you she doesn't love you enough.

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qotsa369 answered Monday March 7 2005, 8:00 pm:
Tell her your gay, that would be awesome. Oh and if your not even done with puberity there is no way in hell you 'love each other VERY much!!' thats dumb.

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kcx1061 answered Monday March 7 2005, 5:52 pm:
tell her that you don't want to because your not ready. tell her that you do love her a lot, and that not "doing things" wont hurt your relation ship. if you feel your not comforatable with it, then you shouldn't, go with your gut. *KaysEe

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sweetjewel answered Monday March 7 2005, 5:49 pm:
if your not done with puberty then your probably not ready

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x0oLoViNiTo0x answered Monday March 7 2005, 5:20 pm:
Wait until you're married.

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XSugarPieX77 answered Monday March 7 2005, 4:22 pm:
If she loves you then she shouldnt have a problem with it at all. Go for it if you want to and if she says something mean then thats not right.
~Brina~

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xcuriousx0 answered Monday March 7 2005, 4:07 pm:
Tell her to wait a little while because your not ready. Usually its the guy who wants to do things. Well any which way tell her that you arent comfortable about it.
mucho love kayla

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xoih3artyouxo answered Monday March 7 2005, 4:06 pm:
First of all, how old are you? Are you sure youre ready??? If you love her then ya should be ready to tell her your fears. But dont do any shit you will regret. Remember use a condom.
xox morgan

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TheTeenGirl answered Monday March 7 2005, 3:54 pm:
I think this will work out, you guys should be at least close enough to be able to tell each other your fears. So, I really think you should tell her, and ask her what she might be scared of, shes probably scared too. But yes, talking is the key to a good relationship, good luck with her. (Also, if she really loves you, she wouldn't care about what you or any of your body parts looked like.)

-TheTeenGirl

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ShYbl0nD3 answered Monday March 7 2005, 3:51 pm:
Well i would wait but if you really want to go ahead. lol sry i didnt help much.
me*

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ThugGirl041790 answered Monday March 7 2005, 3:08 pm:
if you are really that embarassed then i would wait.. but you seem to have alot of love for her so thats the positive thing and reason why you should.. but um it sounds like you young if you arent done with pubertiy..so i think maybe you should wait til your a lil bit older..much luv dez

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analovezya answered Monday March 7 2005, 2:27 pm:
You're "not done with puberty"? Um, okay so, what are you like 12? Why would not being done with puberty effect how she feels twards you? Is she very much older than you? At such a young age, you shouldn't even be considering having sex with anyone, you have your ENTIRE life, and ya know, you can blow it all with one false move. You could get her pregnant, you could get an STD, tons of horrible things may happen. I think you should DEFANATLY wait untill you're mature enough to handle and bad situations that may come up.

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sweet'n'spicy answered Monday March 7 2005, 2:03 pm:
first of all DON'T GET YA SELF IN SHIT YOU'LL REGRET then if ya sure then if she luv ya then she'll be o.k. with it.
look at my friend babii D cause she thank the same i think********
**********remeber USE A CONDOM******************

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BabiiD answered Monday March 7 2005, 2:02 pm:
First of all, how old are you? Are you sure youre ready??? And how are you sure you love that girl? But if you want to than it's fine, but don't do any shit that you will regret. And use a condom if you decide to.
$$$Babii D$$$

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XxJeSSeGeRbiLxX answered Monday March 7 2005, 2:02 pm:
if she loves you and you love her, then i think that you should talk to her and tell her that youre not ready to do anything like that. tell her and she will probably understand. tell her you love her very much, but you dont feel that the time is right.
hope i helped
=) martyna

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lovebug26 answered Monday March 7 2005, 1:59 pm:
If you are not ready than don't do it. You don't ahve to do anything you don't want to. Just because everyone else is haveing sex doesn't mean you have to. Going through pubertiy is also a big deal too. Not to give too much detail but you will develop more down there. The peak of a man genital is when thy are 16 -18. So you might have a while til you actaully go through puberty. Then again I think if you guys really love each other and feel comfortable enough to have sex than go for it. Just please use protection...its an absolute must. Let me know what you decide.

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mrs_radcliffe answered Monday March 7 2005, 1:59 pm:
Its your choice really depends how you feel
about her and your self if your not ready
your not ready just tell her that

luv roxie
please rate thanx

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