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Well!My name is Sami and I am in a big old miss hap right now with a lot of things in my life.
I have not takled to my ex bf in over a month ya kno but yesterday I was online and he IMed me. He said some really mean comments to me. Like he kept on calling me a slut and stuff like that. I am not a slut either.I asked him what I did to him and he didnt say anything for a lil while. On halloween I went to six flags with my ex bf adam bc I thought that I still had feelings for him, all that we did was kiss. We didnt really even make out, just lil pecks here and there. My old friend nichole is telling dominic stuff that isnt true. Shes telling him that I did more with adam, when I didnt. So after I asked dominic what I did to him he was like, you went and saw adam on halloween.I told him that we didnt do more then kiss, but he was like," thats not what i heard". He has never even met my friend nichole, they have only talked on the phone. they dont really even kno eachother, and he is gonna believe her over me. Well I found out when I saw adam that I DIDNT have ANY feelings for him anymore. Atfer he and I kissed I went in the bathroom and cried bc I made the mistake of kissing him. It just hurts to much that dominic doesnt believe me bc last year when we dated we were in a mis hap just like this, where he didnt believe me, he believed everyone else. But in the end he figured out that I was not lying to him and that I WAS TELLING HIM THE TRUTH. Dominic has a gf and I can honestly say that I am happy for him. Its good to kno that he is happy. He thinks that I am all sad and miserable when I am not. Yeah I miss him and stuff but I am slowing moving on. Okay another thing is last weekend I went and saw my best friends: phoebe, dylan and tara. We all were at taras house watching a movie ok. Dylan and I are really good friends. Hes my bestest friend in the entire world. When we were watching the movie he and I were cuddling and kissiing. And yesterday online I put stuff to dylan like...Dylan-your my best friend in the entire world. I love you to death.LoL!We had fun last weekend didnt we? Your a good kisser, I hope I get to kiss you again." I am not the type of gurl that is going to kiss any guy. I have to like a guy to kiss him.I really like dylan more then a friend. I can say that I am falling in love with him. Maybe I already am. Dylans just difffernt then other guys. He excepts me for who I am. He has never hurt me in any way at all since Ive known him. Yeah dominic to me is the perfect guy but he has changed so much since we have broken up. I still really dont kno what was so bad that I did to him. I stoped talking to to dominic last night at 9 pm and I signed ofline and called Dylan right away. I cried like the whole time on the phone. I know that dominic is mad, its how he gets about situations like this. Yeah his feelings for me are fading but he still cares. It hurts more that he doesnt believe me about he adam thing, then him calling me a slut. How can he believe my old best friend nichole over a gurl (me)who is was in love with and knows inside and out. He doesnt kno nichole at all? I am at school right now and all I have been doing for the past 4 hrs is crying. Should I be crying over this or just let it pass bc I know that he is just mad and doesnt mean it. Its like Im single anyways. I have a right to kiss a guy if I like them ya know. Well please help me I am so confused.
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Hey Sam!!!! It's me, your gurl, Candy!! I still need to meet Dylan!!!! :) You know Dominic is just jealous that you are tring to move on and date other guys. You desevre a guy who will treat you right and give you the respect you deserve!Yiou don't need nicole or urbanor dominic if they are gunna treat you like shit. Nicole's and urban's asses are mine!! You are one of my really good friends and I am not gonna let them treat you like that!! LYLAS!!!!!!! ~Candy the Wiccan :)
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yeah you're right that was mean, my bad. just go with your first instinct and i know that doesn't help but i kind of got lost in the story.
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i say 4get bout dominic he seems lik an ass anyways i say you should hook up with dylan but wait acouple more weeks or so because if you do go out with dylan right now it might be a little awcword but like if you and dylan hook up it might ruin your friendship.
this has sorta happened to me my bestfriend is a guy and were always all cuddling and stuff but i luv him and i want to grow up with him and i know he loves me too but more like a friend and when i asked him out he said he didnt want to ruin are friendship
we stayed best friends still
but think about what i just said would you rather have a ruined friendship or still have a friendship
hope i helped
peace
xoxo
Lia
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Been there! I'm not going to be mean like the rest of the people who answered this were. Sorry to hear about your situation but it sounds like u have to figure things out. What happened with your ex is in the past, and even if it takes time, you'll realize that. Don't dwell on what you're missing, look back on what you had. And I've been saying this for a long time, Friends make the best boyfriends! It saves the most time. Dylan already knows you, apparently likes you if you two have kissed. But ask him about. Tell him how you feel. If he cares enough to listen to you cry he will listen to your feelings. Instead of asking us for advice, ask him, since he's directly invloved. Again-- Don't worry about your ex, if it helps, cut him out of your life until you're good and happy with who you have and you won't worry about his life anymore. Don't listen to what he has to say until then. Guys will be cruel but if you find one that treats you good, hold onto him. Good luck, honey.
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This domenick kid has a G/F why is he getting mad about you kissing somebody else. He is trying to ruin your life and you are letting him. You need to go out with this Dylan kid He seems like he really cares about you. He may be the one, and domenick is just being a prick and u need to forget about him.
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omfg okay thats really long if you could make it shorter im sure i can help i just don't feel like reading all that lol sorry
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I think crying is okay, but you need to learn to get over this already. He's clearly not the "perfect" guy. You said you were already slowly getting over him, so I don't see the problem. Just let it pass. It seems everyone has moved on now except you. He already has another girlfriend. Guys say hurtful things, it's universal. You need to learn to deal with this.
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