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me and my dad...dont get along...at all..he takes the simplest things i say..so serious..and all wrong...for instance..the other day we were trying to decide wut to do for lunch...we all decided on something but then he jus had to change his mind. when they asked me i said 'i dont care can we jus go some place cuz im really hungry' his response 'well i dont like your attitude!!' my mom tries to calm him down but his final desicion is 'well i just wont eat then!!' he gets so mad at me for the stupidest things like that..and my mom steps in and tries to resolve it but he ends up mad at the both of us..and when he gets mad..he cusses...last year i went to a school..on the bad side of town(it was a magnet skool..for higher students..but all the peeple hoo lived around there went ther too) so i heard so much language i got sick of it....so one day when he was mad..i asked him not to cuz i hear enough of it everyday..well now..he still cusses..acts like that talk never happened..and he's my sunday skool teacher! and everyone thinks i live the perfect life when its horrible..my dad keeps telling me over and over how we may not have enough money for christmas this year...ive told my mom that i hate when he talks about stuff like that..i guess he thinks im to 'mature'..last sunday..we talked about 'controlling our anger' and he wuz like 'u decide to get angry' well he decides that a whole bunch! i just want to stop the fighting..and my mom and i have sat and cried after some fights..and i want to stop bringing my mom into these fights..i want to stop the fighting..but im not sure how..oh any by the way..im only 12
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Can i just say for a young adult..you have got it goiong on. You kow about bad language..unlike your dada..you want peace unlike your dad.
You have everything..your dada does not. Seems to me that you are the AULT in this situation.
I have nver gotten along wiht my father..and enver will.
If I argue wiht him..the only person who gets hurt is me.
So I would just say..keep your thoughts to yourself.
YOU ARE RIGHT...you are the one in control..seems to me that your dada is on big baby.
But when you keep your cool..you win...
So just walk away or say nothing..in the long run...it will make him look bad...
As to yor mom..i would NOT let my husband talk like that to my kid..so she needs to get a bakcbone and tell your dad to chill his behavior...For someone who is only 12..you are the ADULT in your family
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then dont give him attitudes.
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the same thing happens with me and my stepdad. my mom tries to calm him down and then he gets mad at both of us. if he says i have attitude problems right before we go out to dinner he'll say that we're eating home...try counselling? hope i helped *niki lyn*
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Your dad seems like an ass! Sorry but i had to say it. try not talking to him at all. see how that works. then he'll only have one reason to be mad at u ecept for a new one everyday.
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Aw i'm really sorry to hear that...Me and my mom were the same way for such a long time. We still dont get along to well but its not as bad as it used to be. Let him know how much its hurting you. Its not fair what hes doing. He's being a hypicrit and its not right.
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I thought i was the only one!I'm goin gthorugh the same thing exactly the same my dad needs anger managment.Because whatever he say goes and that is the way it is well supposly to him.Im in the xact position but the way i deal with is by letting things go by.cause ur 18 in 6 years and he will be getting old and then he will be soon living off of you.you just needto be patient but if he ever gets out of hand call the police asy as thatbut untill then just know thatwont last.i hope i heped at least a little an if i didn sorrry good luck!
!~Ivanna~!
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Let Juliet spread the love (*'../'*). well it seams your dad is troubled. Maybe you should go to him and be like you need a counsler, adf if you feel scared ask your mom. As appart from this school I think you should try to get a scholorship to a new school. E-mail or im me in you need any more help
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Well, you dad is acting like a total asshole - no offense! - Just whatever he wants tod o, just agree with him even though you may like it... I know it sounds rough, but that is like the only thing today... Sorry hun, you can't stop the fighting. And he probably isn't gonna stop cussing when he gets mad because it's like your tellig him what to do and parents hate that! (I know you weren't telling him what to do, but that's what they think you are doing... lol) I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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