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ArE tHeY rEaLLy My FrIeNdS??
Okay.. i have had a secret that only my really good friends know but im not going to tell what it is. Well, in skool one day this kid chase shouted it out loud and everyone looked at me. I asked him who said it and he said it was my bestfriend! Well she promised she didnt do it so i forgave her and she told me my other friend jade said it.. but now i heard that this girl that i really dont like her name is shelby she told 2 of my friends that didnt know and i didnt even tell shelby about it my other friend shannon did. Today we were in s/s and my other friend amanda told me she said it! Im just so confused! should i be mad at all these people or should i just let it go?? please help!
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no they r not.
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dont trust neone..no matter how good a friends you are...friends can always turn backs.
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I dont think they are really your friends if they did that to you but i think if u have anymore secrets dont tell anyone unless you kno for sure that noone would tell. You should just let it go for now but dont let it happen again! <3Juliet<3
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i think it's gonna be really difficult to figure out who started the secret telling spree, but it seems like they all perpetuated it. i think it may be best if you just let it go... it just seems like it could be too difficult to choose the person to be mad at... but if you can't let it go that easily, get everyone you originally told to sit down together and talk with them about how you're disappointed/hurt/whatever. communication is key.
best of luck
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what school do you go to?
ok first of all it is like a common gene girls share that they cant keep a secret and they have like a crazyneed for gossip...its nit like they could help it...it just comes
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Wow sweetie, that is a lot of confusement! People are going to tell your secrets, it happens..a lot. So it's really important to know who you can tell and trust to keep secrets with. I'm guilty of that, I'm very open and usually share my secrets with people all time. Then the next day everyone knows. But I know to keep secrets. I understand your problem, because it's happened to me many times. It's difficult to let it go, but I think that's best. You have no idea who said what and how this got started. So instead of getting yourself worked up and blaming people who might be innocent, just take what you did as a reminder not to do it again. If you must tell someone a secret tell someone you really know who will keep it. And whoever started it might or might not confess. It shouldn't matter though. It's been done and you can't stop what happened. It's okay hun, happens to everyone! And you'll be the smart one for not getting upset like most people who do. It just makes everything worse by doing that! Have a great weekend!
Love,
Mandee
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A secret can only be kept by two people if one of them is dead.
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Maybe this time let it go.Just try to watch out for who you tell, people can be untrustworthy sometimes.If it happenes again would be mad @ them.Hopei helped and it doesnt happene again.
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