Question Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 11:35 am
Ok my boyfriend and I just recently started having sex a couple of weeks ago, and everything went fine. This may be an over share but we took every precaution, using spermicidal condoms and having him "pull out". So this is why i don't understand why my period is late. Not by too much but by a few days. Then yesterday he fingered me and there was signs of blood about a half hour later. (and he had already popped me before that so its not that)I'm freakin out... you don't think i could be pregnant do you? Help me and ill do anything you ask... PLEASE
carmextHiEF answered Sunday October 31 2004, 8:54 pm: Honestly i doubt you are pregnant. My boyfriend and i have had that situation a few times. We use protection and my period is late. Once it was late by a month. I was never pregnant. You are probably worried and stressing out that you are pregnant. Therefore it is making your period delayed. I wouldn't be worried about being pregnant until you are a month or more late. Then i'd take a pregnancy test. [ carmextHiEF's advice column | Ask carmextHiEF A Question ]
xcExixcOurtx answered Saturday October 23 2004, 2:15 am: even though condoms are great for protection they're not 100% ..theres always that sligh chance that it could have broke or it was on wrong..but if he fingered u and there was blood then most likely your getting or going to get ur period shortly..and if not then i think you should go to the doctors..but there always is that slight chance that u could be pregnant but idoubt it...xO --cOurt [ xcExixcOurtx's advice column | Ask xcExixcOurtx A Question ]
Tarebear109 answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 2:27 am: The same thing happened to me.. dont worry about it I thought I was pregnat to.. it will take a while and when you get your period you will bleed very heavily.. its just a normal thing.. if you dont start within 2 weeks go try a pregancy test.. write me anytime you want.. i know excactly how you feel [ Tarebear109's advice column | Ask Tarebear109 A Question ]
grape answered Saturday September 25 2004, 10:22 pm: i dont want to scare u but u might be pregnant, but all im sayin is go to a CVS or somethin and get a test (a pregnant test) and see if u r or not and what i want u to do for me is rate my answer and i really wish that u get the wright answer that u wanted. [ grape's advice column | Ask grape A Question ]
babigurl46 answered Wednesday September 22 2004, 7:08 pm: * CoNfUsEd *! is stupid Ur not a slut But anywayz ur probably not pregnant if the condom didnt rip or if he didnt cum in you and if he pulled out before that Maybe ur period is just eregular or what Hope I helped [ babigurl46's advice column | Ask babigurl46 A Question ]
itsallabOutkimbO answered Wednesday September 22 2004, 8:26 am: the same thing kind of happened to me... the first time i had sex, it was like a week or so late. i think it happens to alot of girls when they first have sex. plus your gonna stress over getting your period the first time u have sex. every month for me is hell-- i look forward to getting it lol. i think u should give it til like next week and then if u dont get it, take a pregnancy test.. hope everything works out sweetie <3 [ itsallabOutkimbO's advice column | Ask itsallabOutkimbO A Question ]
xOmAnDaH answered Saturday September 18 2004, 11:01 pm: Try taking a pregnancy test..just dont let anyone find out about it if you dont want them too..if you are pregnant talk to your mom and see what she has to say about it..if you arent well i dont know what to say about the blood..but maybe wait a while till the next time you have sex..hope i helped..rate me =)
jetaime answered Saturday September 18 2004, 4:22 pm: you could just be really stressing over it and thats causing it too be late....dont worry ur definetly not pregnant [ jetaime's advice column | Ask jetaime A Question ]
XxSXyKaYlYnXx answered Saturday September 18 2004, 3:36 pm: No not if you wore a condom and did everything right and he didnt cum in you. Having sex also sets your period back up to a week or less or depending in the person even more. So theres no worries [ XxSXyKaYlYnXx's advice column | Ask XxSXyKaYlYnXx A Question ]
xplisit15 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 1:49 pm: Well if ur sure that the condom didnt break and if he pulled out im sure u have nothing to worry about hun. Im kinda the same way, ill have sex with my boyfriend and my period ends up being like 4 or 5 days late, no big deal. If you were bleeding after he fingered you im sure your not pregnant. And dont stress yourself out because that will make ur period later. [ xplisit15's advice column | Ask xplisit15 A Question ]
xXxpinky615xXx answered Saturday September 18 2004, 1:41 pm: There is a possibility that you could be pregnant. Condoms can break no matter what kind of condom they are. What you need to do is calm down and not think about it because if you're stressing over it your period will be late because of being stressed out. You could be pregnant but it's too soon to tell. So just calm down because you worrying so much will make your period even later and you'll be stressing even more. Good luck and I hope I helped.
Courtney answered Saturday September 18 2004, 12:07 pm: Just wait a day or two . If your period isn't on then go buy a pregnancy test or go see the doctor . If ther's signs of blood , I wouldn't worry that much because, it could be that your body is getting used to you have sex because, I think you said you and your boyfriend have been doing it for weeks . Well, if the test proves that you aren't pregnant , then go on with your life . But if and your boyfriend continue to have sex there's a pill that'll guarantee you a possibility of not getting pregnant . There even isn't a possibility of getting pregnant, and you've probably heard of it . It's called the 24 hour pill . Go to any clinic or doctors and take the pill within 24 hours . Well good luck and I hope your period comes on . [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
princs answered Saturday September 18 2004, 12:03 pm: If its your first time having sex then its totally normal for your period to be messed up a bit.
If it still hasnt come in a week or so then you should go see a doctor.
Hope i helped :)
*princs [ princs's advice column | Ask princs A Question ]
Karen answered Saturday September 18 2004, 11:59 am: You won't know if you're pregnant for another few weeks because everyone's period is off after they have sex. This has happened to my friend and her period came like 1-3 weeks after. If this concerns you, just go out and buy a pregnancy test. Hope I helped :) [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
Sherry answered Saturday September 18 2004, 11:56 am: You wont be sure until a few weeks because everyone is off by their period by a few days sometimes. So wait 2-3 weeks and see what happens. Good luck. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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