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Moody Friend
I am 13/f
I have a friend. We'll call her "N". Well N is very moody sometimes. And, yes, I do know about PMS but its everyday. It seems like shes nice to me on and off or when she wants to be. I don't know if she is using me or anything but she just sometimes have this attitude when I talk to her. She doesn't listen or look like she is. And thats one of my BIGGEST pet peeves. But then she talks to me about her day and everything. And I listen and set the example. I think my friend is personally full of herself in ways cuz she thinks she can have any guy she wants and can be conceeded at times. And then calls herself the ugliest thing or not that pretty. (and she is absolutly soooo pretty) It bothers me cause she brings me down. I can never talk to her about my problems. But I have to listen to her?
Please help me
What should I say or do? Because she is very nice but the thing I just typed above..I want to stay her friend.
xo0x :)
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hmm. well i'm not sure if she's a great friend or just an aquaintance (someone you see at school. and rarely hang out with outside of school). lets say she's an aquaintance. than you are probably realizing how she really is. and that's how she is going to be. you could talk to her but a) she'll either not want to be your friend cause you confronted her or b) she just does it because like you said she's full of herself. if she's a really good friend. someone you'd consider almost a best friend. i would say if you talk to her she'll listen. maybe let her know her shit don't stink. that you'd like to talk to her about your problems and/or day. let her know friendships are give and take..
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Honestly i think that you should just go ahead and ask her if anything is on her mind. if there is then talk with her about it. if there isnt then tell her how she's been presenting herself towards you lately. she'll understand.
~sammie~
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well u have to take chances.. and you have to risk ur friend ship with her to be her friend.. then its not worth it. cuz you should be able to talk to her but ,,, if shes nice. then she will let u be and understnad. . okay
xxmanda hope i helped
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simple.. talk to her about it.. i mean dont put very mean but just to get the point across and just let her know that this is how you feel and your getting the idea that she doesnt like u very much
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She might have problems you don't even know about. Ok so you are the listening friend. It could be that you are the only one she can talk to. If you are having problems with her looking into your eyes when you talk, this is what one of my friends said to me: "If you look into my eyes, I know that you are being honest with me and yourself. If you believe what you are saying is important, please look me in the face." I had no idea I was doing it.
She has a small self esteem problem. You could tell her how upset it makes you that she keeps putting herself down.
As far as your problems, try to bring them up, but you might just have to find another listener to talk to. I have a friend that likes to talk but eventually I did get my two words in and we exchange a lot better than we used to. Keep trying.
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give her a lap dance.
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