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Hey, I'm stuck in this bad situation. I like two guys. Well, one guy I like is really sexual, like I've never done anything with him, of course since I'm only 14.. And the other guy well hes like great, he always calls me beautiful and really cares for me but always says that I like the other guy. Who would you choose? I think I have an idea, but I'm not so sure. Thanks!
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okay well i would choose the one who is always telling you that you are beautiful and stuff. they are usually the ones that you have a long lating relationship with.the other guy if he is very sexual then thatr means that that is alll he is gonna want and he doesnt care about who it is with. he dont care about who likes hi just as long as he gets what he wants. so just thnk long and hard about it and u do the math!!!
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Hey. Wow have I been in this situation many times. If that one dude just wants to be with you because he thinks he wil get some action than that is not good. You are 14 and in my opinion to young to be having sex. If the other guy seems to really like you for you and he is sweet than I would go for him because he seems that he would treat you better.It is all on your preference however. If you are cool with the sexual stuff than you need to do what your heart tells you and what you feel is right. Good luck. Hugs n kiss*s xoxo *Summer
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i would go for the nice guy, the one who tells you that you look nice and stuff. guys that are very forcefull and forward can get you in big trouble really fast!
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hey hUn! choose the guy you feel more comfortable with... if your not going to feel comfortable doing stuff with the sexual guy then you don't want him! If your just going to feel awkward around him! the other guy sounds super sweet... so i would choose him... even though i dont mind hooking up with guys... but i'm older so thats beside the point. choose the sweet guy! and hook up with him when ur ready! i dont know either of those guys... so i dont want you to choose this guy just cause i say so.. LoL.. choose the guy you know actually likes you and you can be yourself around! good luck! and let me know how it goes!
xOxO, aLeX
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If you have and idea then go for it. They are your feelings. I can't tell you who to choose. Follow your heart. It will lead you to what's right for you. Of course that's if the sexual guy isn't pushy and won't make you do stuff you don't want to do. If he will force you into a bad situation, then he is not the one for you.
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Your 14. You don't have to choose either of them. You can be friends with both. You can hold hands and go to movies with both of them. You can even make out with both of them if that's what you want to do, and everyone knows what's going on.
The "great" guy sounds jealous. At 14, that's not really a problem, but when your older it will be. (just something to keep in mind)
I'm a bit concerned about the phrase "really sexual" - do you mean that he has a reputation for sexual activity? Or do you mean that you find him very sexually attractive? If he's got a reputation, make sure that you know what you do and don't want to do, and that he knows what you do and don't want to do. And until he's proven that he accepts those limits, try to make sure you have friends within earshot in case you need backup - or an excuse to run off really quick. If what you meant was that you fin him sexually attractive - that's important, but it'll wear off fast if he's a jerk.
Is either of them pressuring you to "go out" with him? Or to do anything else? If so, let him know that trying to push you into something only results in pushing you away. And stick to it. Avoid situations where anyone (even your friends) try to talk you into doing things you know aren't right.
Most of all, your 14. Try not to stress over relationships. Odds are, even if you pick one, the relationship will run it's course in a few months.
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The one who really cares for you for sure! I mean, the other guy who is sexual might try to forcey you to do stuff... i hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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choose neither..boys are icky
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hey sweetheart. well if you ask me i would choose the GREAT guy. not know does he know how to treat you, i dont think that you will end up in a sticky situation like you would with the other guy. i think that the other guy might try to force something on you that you arnt ready for. so i say go for the nice guy! in the long run, its a better choice. good luck tho babe.
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I personally would pick the one who calls you beautiful and really cares for you... but it's really all up to you! Pick the one who makes you the happiest!
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