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Do I Like Him??
Well.. i'm dating this kid named Eric and I really like Eric, hes like a really good friend of mine. We started dating on Tuesday, and now I just don't like him as a boyfriend anymore. Everytime I date a guy I can't seem to like them more then 2 days, Is there something wrong with me?? Is this normal? Should I keep dating Eric.. or do you think I actually don't like him?? *
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I think u should try and give eric a chance. My girlfriend thought she didnt like me tha otha day but then we talked it ova and she came ova to my house and we *did stuff* But u might realy not like him. i would at least try to go out with him for 1 more week
from, Jonathan
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Give it time, just don't wait two days figure you arent interested and give up.. wait a while and see if your opinion changes.
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Okay,there could be 2 possibly reasons of why this is happening to u.
1.u dont seem to like anyone more than 2 days because subconciously u already like someone and u dont want to meet anyone else.
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2.U just dont seem to find ur type and u take 2 days to notice the boy ur going out with is not ur match
What to do:
Sit down and think what do u like about Eric and what dont like about him,Think why did u stopped dating him,is it because u felt uncomfortable dating a goodfriend,is it something he did,or is it that u found out he isnt the right one.
The decision is up to u,just think of what I wrote maybe ,just maybe the answer to ur problem is down there,If theres anything else u want to ask,dont doubt looking for me,ill try to do my best.
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lol just make sure u RELE like them before u go out w/ them....i thynk u only go out wit boys jusst to have a boyfriend .....and thats ok cuz ive dun it too lol just find someone u RELE like!
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no it is noramal you should and if it persists you should just tell him you don't feel the passion
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I know what you mean. You think you'd like him as a boyfriend and build it up in your mind that that's what you'd like with him and when it comes down to it you realize that maybe you were wrong. I wouldn't advise continuing to date him. If you don't like him like that, what's the point? If you think it might hurt your friendship, well you can try talking to him and explaining it to him. When I was young...like middle school and elementary school I'd keep having these boyfriends and after a couple days I'd decide...no I didn't want that. Now I've grown up and at 22, I've come up with my own solution, date, but don't commit...after two days you should never already know that he's your boyfriend that complicates things. You should actually DATE him before you call him your boyfriend. I know when you're younger it doesn't make much sense to just date and not call him your boyfriend, but that's how its done. You're supposed to test it out before you commit, to prevent situations like the one you're in. I hope things work out and you at least keep your friend. But, try not to date your close friends...its really a bad bad idea, friends are forever...boyfriends certainly are not. :) cheesy but true
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Well, find out if he feels the same way. It could be mutual.
If not, let him know that you really like him as a friend & that you just aren't ready to be more then that with him.
Keep dating people, that is the fun part anyway. You don't have to so quickly become boyfriend/girlfriend.
Just because you know what you want & don't want within 2 days doesn't make you a bad person.
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Jody
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I used to be the same way..only it was longer than 2 days. I don't think you honestly like him. Just infatuations& such. That still happens to me sometimes, but not with guys I date. I think you should break up with him. Next time there is a guy you think you like..make sure you truly like him before you two date each other! Hope I helped! -Amber
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