Question Posted Thursday November 18 2004, 8:56 pm
Ok i asked a question eirlier in the month about a guy i really like and telling him i like him. Or atleast its what ya'll said to do and i was almost there some days but i just couldnt think of almost ruining everything if he didnt fell the same way. We flirt,he opens doors for me, and its all ok. But for some reason, it seemed like he liked me a lot but now its kinda fading away(or so it seems). Maybe its just this week or something and our relationship will go back to its normal ways (flirting, liking eachother stuff). But Should i still tell him, and see what happens?? I really like this guy, he means so much to me. what do i do?
TrUtH_hUrTs_1 answered Friday November 19 2004, 3:47 pm: he might be going through some problems that you have to talk to him about... but if you really want to get the message to him, if the subject of ppl you guys like comes up hint that if someone u knew liked u, u would want to know, even if it was a friend or something, you would want to know.
jodylp1 answered Thursday November 18 2004, 10:35 pm: He could be under some stress, or something going on his family. Don't take it personally.
I would say that now isn't a good time to let him know about wanting to take your relationship further.
Just be his friend for right now. Let him know that your there if he needs to talk.
After all, he may just seem to be backing off because he doesn't know how to tell you that he is interested. : )
By still just being there, your letting him know your interested. He'll get the idea.
: )
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