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okay, so im 13 and im really small like my body is and im only like 5"4 i weigh bout a little over 100 pounds and im not trying to be arrogant but im really fit. The only thing is my boobs are really big. I wear a D cup bra and even when i wear sports bras they like look really big anyways theres a lot of problems. Im majorly into sports and they get so much in the way and they make my back hurt really bad. Second of all I always get hit on by like way older guys and I dont want that because im a really christian person with a strong faith and its just wrong. Then theres also the problem that like a whole bunch of guys like me and the only reason is because of my boobs, and theres been like a whole bunch of rumors that i had a boob job which is NOT true at all and a lot of girls dont like me because of them because they get jealous that the guys at our school really like me even though i tell them i dont like any of them. Then i also have stretch marks and i dont know how to get rid of them??? can someone please tell me about any really good bras that will like hide them or help support them, cause ive talked to my dcotor and they just gave me this pain medicine to keep them from hurting when they put strain on my back and stuff and also to hide them from perverted guys that im tired of dealing with?? please help me
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talk to your mom about getting you breast size reduced.. there was in article about it in a magazine and it helped one girl a lot.. you should.. but dont do it behind ur mom's back lol... confront her and tell her that you arte going through an awful lot of pain.. i bet there is sum kind of over the counter thing for getting rid of stretch marks. jus go to like CVS or Walgreens or any other drug storews near by *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, ali *feedback is appreciated!
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I know you already got a lot of responses but I'll go ahead and tell you what I think anyway.
If your breasts are really causing you alot of back pain, you could get a breast reducion. As for making them look smaller, there really is no other way. I don't think you should wear baggy clothes to hide your body. You should accept your body.
The ONLY reason rumours are going around, and girls are talking, is because they are jealous. Trust me, I know. You should just go up to them and tell them they have no right or reason to be talking crap about you when they know nothing about you.
As for the guys looking, hey, they're guys. They're always gonna look. I've had big boobs my whole life and I've gotten hit on by 40 year olds when I was 12. Gross, yes. But get used to it baybay!
Good luck in whatever you choose to do. :)
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Ok. You can get minimiser bras that help make your boobs look smaller. You also need to go for a proper fitting and get a bra that fits you properly. A lot of women suffer back problems because their bras don't fit properly. By getting certain bras ie: not balcony bras or ones that give you a cleavage, you won't therefore have much of a cleavage and it will seem you have slightly smaller boobs. As for the guys, or should I say perverts, where higher cut tops or a jumper if they're around. Almond oil is good for scars/stretch marks but the best thing I've found is cocoa butter for stretch marks twice a day.
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There is nothing wrong with you. As you get older, your body will probably grow into them. But, if they are hurting you, a breast reduction is an option. There are articles about them in a lot of magazines. It will supposedly make those back pains go away. As far as the stretch marks go, i have heard that they will go away. Tons of girls have them. hope it helps ~lyl~ *me
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well thers nothin you can really do about it..i mean if yah wanna get surgery n make them smaller i suppose..if you really want to and like the rumors keep goin around..n like dont wear tyte clothes..i mean ths the only way they wont b noticeable..do you like tell your mom like ne of this..mayb she nos sumthing tht wud work tht we cant help you w/..for all the pple tht like make fun of you..dude they dont even no you..thts messed up seriously..just tell your mom how they ttreatin you..she may b able to help
hope everything alrite
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to get rid of stretch marks, use cocoa butter.
as for hiding them... there are bras at victorias secret and such that squish them down and all that, the opposite of a push up bra.
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Well since you're only 13 i wouldn't suggest this yet, but in a few years, i read somewhere that people can get a breast reduction. It'll greatly help you! For the back pains maybe see a chiropractor or go talk to your doctor again... To hide them from perverted guys there's not much you can do.. except wear baggy sweatshirts and stuff.. I hope things get better for you though! and don't let those people who start rumors get you down! Hope I helped a little!
~Lana
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I think that you should see a doctor again about your back pains and get a different mdication if your back is hurting that bad. Also to deal with stretch marks get Vita-K I think it is called or use Cocanut Butter. And for the rumors..just screw em'. srry to sound bitchy or anything but they are all probably just jealous of you or idk they just watne to make their lives better by hurting someone elses feelings. If you wanted to get good bra's I would recomend getting ones from Victoria Secret and srry to break it to you but you cant really hide them, you will just have to get use to them which i know sux. guys..guys...guys they will always be liek that to a gurl even if they are 12 or 13 and have a "bigger" chest that is just the way they am. and for the older guys say back off or something and be like you are wayy too old for me! lol well I hope I am helping a little bit! Leave one in my inbox if you ever need anything! I'm here for you! Love xoxo- ♥Andie
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Hey! I just turned 14 a couple days ago, Im 5,2 and 115 pounds, and I'm also a D cup. The things you said in your paragraph is almost everything I have. I'm really happy I have big boobs but I dont like dealing with the stretch marks! Go to Eckerds and buy Vita-K Solution for Stretch Marks (helps fade away stretch marks, Body Lines plus Ridge Lines). If you want a good bra that has a full cup for your boobs to cover up the stretch marks, go to Victoria Secrets, there bras are comfortable and supportive and you'll probably want an underwire bra or a push-up. I play sports also (Soccer) and I have to run alot but now Im use to them being there, and I bet you will get use to them too. I dont wear sports bra's when I play soccer, I wear bra's and it helps me alot! My back doesnt hurt and I've had big boobs since like 5th grade, so you may need to see another doctor just for a second opinion. There's not much to do with the older men and the preverts except ignore them. The rumors will keep going, the only way to deal with them, is not let them get to you. There's no way you can hide your boobs, be thankful you have them that big, some girls are still an A at the age of 16! The girls at your school are just jealous and you just got to know which guy really wants you for you, not all the other guys who want you for your boobs. I hope I helped!
xoxo - Kalie Noelle
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I know what your going thru, i to was and still am well endowed in that department lol! The greatest bra I have everrrr found was by "Curvation" you can buy it at any Big Dept. Store or like a Wal-Mart. Also, pick u up a bottle of Palmers Cocoa Butter Lotion, they make the stretch marks on your breats not go away, but fade into the regular color of your skin.
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I would get surgery i read this thing in teen magazine for a girl who did that and she said her life is much better!
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