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i REALLY NEED HELP! BAD!!
Hay.. i once when out with this guy Hayden.. we went out for 5 months...im only 13 years old.. yeah really young to have any thing SERIOUS* well.. one time we went swimming.. we went into the house... n he was touchin me n places i didnt want him to touch me.. rite b4 he left.. he fingered me.. n i didnt want this to happen.. im affraid he is going to tell everyone at school what happend.. cuz if this gets out, they mite think imma hoe.. n im not the kinda girl who wants to be n this situation.. also.. i broke up with Hayden because he was a sick perv... i found a much better boyfriend named Justin! He is so great! *not a perv* but he heard about this rumer... i didnt want to tell him what Hayden did to me cuz i didnt want him to think i wanted Hayden to do this to me or that im that kind of person.. should i tell Justin what happend? or should i keep it to myself... Also.. what should i do about Hayden? i told him the real reason i broke up with him is because i didnt like him any more... should i tell him the real reason or keep it to myself.. Hayden and me broke up July 7.... i need help! answer all my questions please!
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Personally, i think u should tell Justin the truth. You should ask him to keep quiet about it, but nevertheless, u should tell him. If u were my g/f, i'd want u to be honest with me and he would probably want that too. It might even bring the two of u closer together. Good luck and hope i helped! If u have anymore questions, just ask me on my advice column or on AIM (NbaSplashman)
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You need to tell both of them the truth. That's it both of them the truth. And as for you being a hoe, you aren't one and you know that in your heart, and that's all that matters. Being in school people are going to talk about you and there is nothing you can do about it no matter who you are. Good luck sweets
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tell him..honesty rly is the best policy. your new boyfriend may find out b/c stuff gets out FAST, and he may not be too happy about you lying..that might screw things up. so if you rly care about him and he cares for you..then i'd tell him. good luck! = )
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hey! if hayden forced you to do what he did, its sexual harrassment. i think you should tell justin cause its better hearing from you and kneoing the truth than hearing the twisted rumors from someone else.i think that if you are still friends with hayden and/or you think he should know the real reason why you broke up with him was, then go ahead and tell him. however, if you think that you both are better off with him not knowing the truth then dont tell him. also, if you think there's guna be too much drama if you tell him the truth, then once again, dont. if you want to talk mroe, my sn and e-mail are in my profile, hope i helped and good luck with your new guy! peace and love!
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Well what Hayden did to you is sexual harrasment and it's illegal. You should of said no or told someone about it. If any guy is touching you or making you feel uncomfortable you should tell him to stop and if he doesnt listen you have to tell someone. It was right of you to brake up with him but you should tell him why you actually broke up with him. He has a right to no and once he nos he might stop doing it to other people hes with. About Justin....you should explain it to him in a way that you are comfortable with and doesnt make you sound like you were asking for it. He should understand. And remember sexual harrasment iss illegal and no one should make you fell uncomfortable.
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well if he tells everyone at skool wat happend then u shouldnt be friends with him at all don't even talk to him n then start a rumor about him that he threatend u to let him finger u or something n then no one will like him becuz he threatend u...n i think u shoud bebable to be honest with justin n that he will understand if u tell him becuz u just gotta tell him the truth n he will understand...and if u wantto u could tell him the real reason y but its up to u on wheather u should or not becuz if u want him to know then go for it n tell him but if u dont want him to know n u dont care about him then just dont keep it to urself but at least tell justin n be honest with him n in return he'll be honest with u
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First of all, you sound like you've got a good head on your shoulders for your age. Don't listen to anyone who tries to call you names because of your situation. What Hayden did is sexual harassment, especially if you said no. If you did say no, and he didn't stop, then you should tell a parent about it. If you're worried about Justin hearing the rumor from someone else, and you trust him, then you may want to go ahead and tell him the truth.
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Seriouslly, what the fuck kind of name is Hayden?
So the guy felt you up, big deal.
Get over it
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That right there is sexual harassment. You really should tell an adult about that..I'm really glad you found someone better! But if Justin heard the rumor and you feel like you can trust him, then I think you should explain what happened& if he tries anything with you..don't let it happen..you don't need to be dealing with that at your age! Don't listen to the rude comments people might have to say about you b/c of that situation, they don't know what REALLY happened so they have no room to talk. You're NOT a hoe. I hope everything works out for you! let me know how it goes! Goodluck hun!
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Hey! Well you shouldnt hide nething from your boyfriend because from what you said, it sounds like yall have a really good relationship together, and you dont wanna mess nething up, and im sure he will be understandable about the whole "Hayden" thing, and just tell him the truth if you wanna keep dating him, because no1 likes sercrets kept from them!
Hope l Helped!
- Good Luck -
Kalie Noelle
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I definitely think that you should tell someone about what Hayden did to you. But only if you had told him to stop, otherwise there's nothing anyone can do about it. I would tell Justin what really happened. And most definitely tell this Hayden cracker the real reason ya'll broke up!-Hope I helped-
~Emmy
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