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How do i dump him?


Question Posted Tuesday December 7 2004, 11:10 pm

I have been going out with this guy for about 2 months and he bought me a bracelet and necklace and my friends all think the bracelet is real gold or w/e idk. Anyways i told one of my best guy friends (who happens to be my ex bf) that I was planning on dumping him (and they are friends him and my bf) and he said he wouldnt tell him i said that but instead he told my bf to be a better bf to me and not be so shy around me so that night my bf invited me somewhere but i couldnt go then the next day he got me a really cool necklace so if I dump him that would be mean after he got me stuff and i heard he really really likes me! But I told my best friend about me dumping him and she told our other friend and our other friend told my bf so my bf was all i heard u were gonna dump me is it true and i was freaked so i said no so now if i dump him he'll no i lied and he'll be torn! what to do?? plz help sry this is long ill rate ya thanx love ya! ps. he seems more like the friend type!
pss. i cant help myself very much i have had 8 bfs and never been dumped i dump all them im not a player really i just get bored easily!(i no its stupid) im 13/f!!!


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confused_and_lost answered Wednesday December 8 2004, 6:19 pm:
first of all...talk to ur friends. they shouldn't be going around saying crap that they know isn't rite to go around and saying. then talk to your bf. tell him that you just wanna be friends. he will probably understand.

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xoxlilshortyxox answered Wednesday December 8 2004, 4:50 pm:
you can always be friends with benifits if you need more info on that you can ask me more ask him if ya dump him he would want the gifts back.

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iNsAnelyKrAzie76313 answered Wednesday December 8 2004, 1:26 pm:
Ok i dont think you should dump your boyfriend.You dont have a reason to.Seems like he's sweet and really cares about you. Its hard to find a guy like that so keep them while you can.Stay with him for atleast another month ,if you still want to dump him then go ahead and dump him.That way he wont think you lied to him.

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Alexas_My_BABY answered Wednesday December 8 2004, 11:35 am:
ok if you dont like him then you cant help that you should ask him if you can just be friends and said sorry for lieing to you but if you dont like him then u cant help that and he should understand

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spooneyhelper answered Wednesday December 8 2004, 8:28 am:
tell him you dont feel the same way bout him and that you sed no cause you didnt want 2 hurt his feelings. if i was you i tell him to fuk off.

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chubb_chubb answered Wednesday December 8 2004, 1:42 am:
a good way to dump him but still be nice is explain you cant keep the necklace because you feel bad because you lied to him and you did want to dump him..explain you are confused and that you dont really know what to do, also tell him that you think hes cool but you dont want him as a boyfriend...
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FunnyCide answered Wednesday December 8 2004, 1:05 am:
ok, well you need to get straight with your boyfriend. personally i think that its crazy that you have had that many boyfriends and you are 13, but that is your descision. you will either deal with your boyfriend for a little longer, or face the music and tell him that you dont like him. you are very well likely that he will be torn and probly angry that you lied to him. he will also be upset because he probly really likes you. he might also be upset because he spent money on you and got you a gift. but if you dont like him, you dont like him. i would be gentle as possible in this situation and offer to "be friends".
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