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My Boyfriend
well my boyfriend is sweet and everything but he is too sweet , I mean he watches out for me and he said that I was the only one in the world for him , he even promised that he didnt like no other gurls like cheerleaders and movie stars , stuff like that, but I cant stand it any more! he calls to check on me at 4:00am! what do i do ?
I dont want to break his heart but I need some time alone, plz HELP!!!!
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talk to him and tell him you don't want to break up you just need some space. 4:00 in the morning! wow..
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tell him..."i cant trust you right?!" and he says YES...then u say "well then u can trust me also"..tell him the same things he tells u, bout hes gonna b the only one 4 u..nd that u luv him(if u really do)..nd just be like i dont need anybody else!! u can trust me!!...tell me how things go...
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for one, tell him not to call so early. And dont be all yelling at him or anything. Just tell him calmly that sum of the things he's doing are a little... extreme. if he rally loves u, he'll understand. Hope i helped!
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your lucky he's sweet and stuff, but your right, thats like obsessive.
but that doesn't mean you've gotta break up with him.
nah, instead tell him your parentle units are really pissed that your getting calls at 4 am (even if its on ur cell if you've got one). just be like i really care about you to, so you don't need to worry about where i am. i wouldn't do anything to hurt you.
He see that you care about him too, and he'll lay off. just don't yell at him, cuz then you'll break his heart.
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TELL HIM STRAIGHT! tell him u dnt want to be woken up at 4 am wen ur sleeping and tell him its ok to fancy other girls bt just dont cheat on u kk good look.
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ok..do you still want to date him??that is really question..if you do..just tell him that you care about him but you want some space away from him. you guys can still date but you need some more time to yoursefl..and fill in the excuse that you want to use.
however..if he is too clingy for you you might have to break up wiht him. Fine line between being a god guy and a clinging vine
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I know exactly how you feel- my ex was exactly like that. I felt enormously guilty, until I realized it wasn't either of our faults- I just had no romantic interest in him. You might feel mean breaking up with him but it's the right thing to do. How would you feel if a guy didn't like you but was staying in the relationship because he felt sorry for you? Good luck, whatever you choose to do- but I think you should let him go.
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tell him that he really means alot to you and that his need to call you at 4 am is a little too much and that you need some space. but remind him how you appreciate it...wow ok i have it where they dont care enough and you have it where they care too much.Lucky you
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i think thats cute!!! but the 4 in the mornin thing eh....idk....just say sumthing lyke baby....i love u alot but when u call me at lyke 4 am im sleeping and stuff so can u plz just bak off a lil? just say u need ur space n stuff...but keep sayin that ur not tryin to b mean just say u wanna b honest
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aww how cute! :D well the best way 2 tell him u need space is to say it nicely and gently! tell him u need some "bubble" space that u just don't want someon on ur back all the time!! let him know that u still luv him and that u hope this doesn't at all affect the relationship!
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